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Jamie Wolfer compares a wedding to a train that needs a conductor. Without a detailed timeline and someone managing vendors and photographers, hundreds of moving parts fall apart. You can't wing it.

Jamie Wolfer compares a wedding to a train that needs a conductor. Without a detailed timeline and someone managing vendors and photographers, hundreds of moving parts fall apart. You can't wing it.
I think that in order to have this overall vibe of like, we're just here for flames, someone's got to be running the show. In multiple videos I've referred to like, your wedding is like a train, you know? It's once it starts, it's you're going. You've got destinations to hit, you've got things to do, and there's got to be, there's got to be a conductor. There's got to be someone at the helm that's going, okay, here's what we're gonna do. So I like being the wedding planner that creates space for photographers to have this vibe. Right? Like, I will create a timeline and I'm not going to tell them what they need to do within their timeline. With so many eyeballs paying attention to your wedding day, so many people to feed and entertain, and so many items that couples usually want checked off of their list, we, we don't really have the luxury of being like, ah, we'll just go ahead and wing it.