YESTalk-164- Real Estate Scripts Aren't Enough
31 Oct 2019 · 13 min
Kevin Ray Ward says real estate scripts alone won't close deals. You need skills built through deliberate practice and role-play, confidence that grows from experience, and consistency in prospecting and follow-up. Scripts are just the starting point.
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Welcome to Kevin Ward's YES Talk for Realtors. This is Kevin Ward.
The illusion is the perfect script will solve all of my prospecting woes. And I will tell you that the perfect script will help. But there's still more. Hi there, it's Kevin Award, the founder of yes Masters Real estate success training and the author of the number one bestselling book, the Book of Yes. The ultimate real estate agent conversation guide. And it's basically a book on scripts and how to use scripts. And I want to thank all of you who have gotten copies of this because you've kept it as a number one bestseller or best seller on Amazon now for over two and a half years and we've actually sold now I think, I don't know how many books, but we're moving up close to 50,000 copies of the Book of Yes that have been, that are in real estate agents hands today. And I'm going to tell you this, if you know what to say in a conversation with a motivated buyer seller, your chances of getting a yes and inspiring the hire improve dramatically. But I also got to say that just knowing what to say is not enough. You don't know how to say it. And if you don't say it enough, you see real estate scripts. And here's the thing, here's the illusion that a lot of real estate agents have. And I want to just make sure that you don't have it because we still are offering right now. You can go to thebookofyes.com and you can get a free copy of the Book of Yes. And you just cover the shipping and we'll send you a free copy of the book. Takes a little bit of a time for it to get there. It takes like I think a week to 10 days. So, so don't panic, don't freak out, don't think it's a. Sometimes people go like it's a scam. I didn't get my book the next day. Well, you can pay three times as much as the shipping and you can get it on Amazon and you can get it in a day or two. But here's the thing, here's what I want you to understand about getting the Book of Yes is it's not, it is not a magic potion. It's not a magic potion that I got the book, pop the lid off, drink it in and it's like, ah, I'm all of a sudden a magic real estate agent that gets 20 listings a day. It's not, doesn't work that way. The perfect Script. The illusion is the perfect script will solve all of my prospecting woes. And I will tell you that the perfect script will help, but there's still more. And you know, you know there's storm still more just having the scripts and going like, oh, that's good. Or that whether you like it or don't like it, having great scripts helps you. But it takes a lot more to to have massive success in real estate in your conversations. And so just what does it take to get yes without BS and to inspire the hire more and more and more frequently? And I want to just share with you, there's really simply three main things that it takes to win the game of real estate with the right scripts. Number one is skills. You got to have skills. It's just like, it's almost like having, it's almost like right here, my basketball. I love basketball and it's almost like having a basketball. I don't care how great the basketball is. I don't care how great your basketball shoes are. If you don't have skills, you're not, you're going to suck at the game of basketball. Right? It helps to have great basketball, it helps have great shoes, it helps be on a good team. But you, if you don't have skills, you're not going to succeed in basketball. And it's the same with real estate. You gotta have the skills in the game of real estate to succeed. So the skills are knowing. How to say this, how do you get skills? Practice, training, rehearsal, role play. And I'm not just talking about any practice. I'm talking it's got to be quality practice. It's got to be intentional practice. If you're role playing, you need to be role playing with great people. Now I'll tell you if you are committed, if you're serious about this, let me give you just some real quick steps that, that will help you dramatically improve your skills as a real estate agent and your skills of what to say and how to say it. Number one, get a copy of the book of yes. Number two, get in our Facebook group, the yes Masters Real estate success community on Facebook. Go there, join the group. You'll have to answer some questions, so don't skip that or we will not let you in because we only allow real estate agents into the group or people who are getting their license. So we don't allow, you know, vendors, we don't allow other people that are going to come in and spam you with all kinds of sales pitches and, and stuff like that. That doesn't happen in our group. That group is purely for real estate agents to help real estate agents. So yes, masters real estate success community, get in the group and then post I'm looking for role play partners on east coast, west coast, central time, whatever it is. And then put roleplay, okay, hashtag R O L E P L A Y. And you can find roleplay partners. Now you can also go into the search bar once you're in the group and just type in roleplay and and you will see a whole bunch of posts that'll pop up of other agents that have joined that are also looking for role play partners. Now it's better if you get somebody that's actually skilled, that's actually like been in, that is actually one of our coaching members or been to our events that's actually been successful. That's the best. But the key is getting started. And I did a couple of videos recently on how to role play, how to find good role play partners, how to be roleplay correctly to actually get good and develop the skills. So, so important that you just do it over and over, repetition, day after day. And I recommend that you train and you practice scripts for an hour a day. And if you're brand new, I honestly recommend you do it two hours a day. Now that seems like a lot. And I get it. In the real estate industry, nobody, not one out of a hundred real estate agents practices two hours a day. And yet in any other field where your skill and your performance matters, like in sports, like in music, like in theater, like in performing arts, no serious player would ever think about practicing less than two hours a day. Okay. My wife was a piano player in college and growing up she practiced. When she was in college, she would practice four to six hours a day. Competitive athletes will practice two, four, six, eight hours a day to work on their skills and develop their game. Right? Well, real estate, real estate, this is your game. Your ability to talk to people and inspire people to hire you and lead people to a decision. That is the game. Skills is where it is at. You take scripts, writes great scripts and great skills, you put them together, you got a magic formula. And that the skills will lead to the second thing that you must have just be successful in real estate, what with great scripts. And that is confidence. Confidence. And that is how do you show up. You got to believe in yourself. And one of the greatest ways to get confidence is to get skills to develop the skills. And with the skills then comes you go get experience. And with that you gain confidence and confidence is Your ability to show up in the presence that you have tells your prospects, it tells your leads, it tells your prospective clients, I know what I'm doing. And if you believe that you're good, then they're going to believe that you're good because they get their belief. What you believe about your, from their belief about you comes from your belief about you. And if you're nervous and you're shaking and you're like, you're hyperventilating and you're stuttering and you're uncertain, they can feel that. And you don't feel confident. They don't feel confident in you. And so if you want massive success, it's not like it's not just a matter of having the right ball. It's like, coach, give me the ball, because when I get the ball, my team's going to win. That's the confidence that goes with the skill. So this is a cocktail that I'm giving you here. It's a 1, 2, 3 cocktail. So number one is skills, number two is, is confidence, and number three is consistency, consistent action. I don't care how good you are and I don't care how confident you are. If you don't talk to people, if you're not consistently prospecting, you're not going to get business, okay? You're not going to get it. You can be great and you can believe you're great. But if you're not consistently prospecting and if you're not consistent in your lead follow up, if you're not consistently out there pumping the bop, you're not going to get any business. So what do you got to be consistent at? Well, one, you got to be consistent. It's training and the preparation. But then when you're actually in the game, consistently lead generating, consistently doing lead follow up, consistently converting those leads, building the relationships, you're going to find people that are ready to move right now and you're going to find people that aren't ready to move right now. Well, if you're consistent, then I'm consistently prospecting. I'm consistent in my lead follow up. Look, if you're prospecting and you're always prospecting and you generate new leads and you do that, but you're not consistent with your lead follow up, then you're going to have a lot of leads that are going to fall through the cracks and they're going to hire another agent that because you didn't have the consistency to follow up with them and stay with them until they were ready to hire you, there's also going to be people you're going to meet and conversations you're going to have with people who aren't ready to sell or buy right now. And so it's consistency that will allow you to build a relationship with them over time so that when they are ready, they've already chosen you to be their go to agent. Because you built the relationship over time because you were consistently in front of them, because consistently maintaining top of mind awareness, they see you in the game. It is sowing seed. And if you're going to be successful in real estate, you got to sow enough seed that a harvest is guaranteed. Now here's the deal. When it comes to getting the scripts and you get, let's say you just got the book of Yes.
I wish.
There was a shortcut. And one of the things that if you've been watching a bunch of my videos or been following me for a while, one thing that you know for sure and is I'm going to tell you the truth. And here is the truth, number one, you can get yes without the bs. I hate BS and I don't sell it and I don't think you should sell it. But I also am going to be honest with you and tell you there are no shortcuts. I wish this was a shortcut. This is not a shortcut. This is a roadmap of learning help to help you learn what to say. And in here is training on how to learn how to say it. But you still got to do the work, you still got to put in the miles, you still got to put in the hours, you still got to make the dials, you got to kiss enough frogs that you're guaranteed to find a prince every once in a while. That's really what it's about. Now when I say that don't go like, well, I just got to kiss enough frogs. It just means it's just a numbers game. No, it's not just a numbers game. It is a numbers game. Here's the numbers game consistency. You got to talk to enough people to get a deal, right? But it's more than a numbers game because you've got, it's a three part cocktail of how to get business that is Skills, confidence and consistency. Or the consistency, you could just call it action. So if I just take action, but I got no skills and no confidence, it's still just a numbers game. But my numbers are going to be a lot worse because I got no skills and I got no confidence. So when you increase your skills and you increase your confidence and you increase the amount of action you're taking and the consistency with with what you're taking. Guess what? Boom. You're going to win. You're going to get business. You're going to make a lot of money. It's that simple. That's it. That's what I wanted to share with you today. If you liked the video, if it's helpful for you, given you just the perspective of how to play and how to win, give it a thumbs up. Subscribe to my channel if it's your first time here. If you got any questions or thoughts on this, please post them in the comments below. Play to win and always expect yes and go to yes Masters. Yes Masters Real Estate Success Community Facebook Group. Join it, put in roleplay, find you some great roleplay partners and play and I'll see you in the Facebook group.
Hey there, it's Kevin. I hope you enjoyed today's podcast. Are you tired of getting no after no when you're out there trying to get listings and trying to inspire sellers to say yes to you? Then I'd like to invite you to download a free copy of my no BS listing presentation. This presentation will guide you through exactly what to say that will have motivated sellers saying yes to you over and over again. Stop getting stumped with skeptical seller objections.
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