Find Your Forever Love by Being True to Yourself #shorts
1 Nov 2024 · 1 min

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Alexandra Niel offers three pieces of advice for finding lasting love after divorce: set boundaries, learn to love yourself, and heal past hurts.

Alexandra Niel offers three pieces of advice for finding lasting love after divorce: set boundaries, learn to love yourself, and heal past hurts.
You can find your forever love simply by honoring yourself and just being you. When I was younger, I used to think that being a chameleon is what would make people love me. I would twist myself into a pretzel and try to be everything to everyone and being nothing for myself, and I lost who I was along the way. So I want to offer 3 ideas to help to continue honoring yourself, and the first one is to set boundaries. Know what you will tolerate and what you won't tolerate and communicate that to those around you. Make sure that they know where that line is so they know what not to cross. Number 2 is learn to love yourself. It all starts with you. If you're in conflict with yourself or you don't like yourself, you can't really invite that into your life. And number 3 is to heal your past hurts. Don't bring all of that into your new relationships because you'll just be making the same mistakes. If you like this type of content, follow me for more ideas on thriving after divorce.