After divorce, you need to grieve the life you expected. But once you work through that pain, there are lessons and new possibilities waiting. The speaker reframes separation as a potential gift that can lead to personal growth and future love.
So if someone is going through a divorce or has gone through divorce, separation, I would say that it's gonna suck, right? And it's gonna suck for a while, but it's also— once you get through the grief, it is a gift if you can find that silver lining. And I would encourage everyone to look for that silver lining because there are lessons to be learned, there are new experiences to be made, there is new love to be found, but you won't be able to do that until you make peace with what has happened and you grieve who you are, you grieve who you were, and what was and what was going to be.
