Alexandra Niel describes the chaos after her divorce: a rushed move, then the question that stopped her cold. Instead of spiraling, she chose to get curious about who she actually was and rebuild from there.
When my divorce became final, I was just a few weeks away from spending Christmas in France with my family. I had to find an apartment, I had to pack and leave, and I didn't really have time to think about what had just happened. But I do remember standing in the middle of my new living room thinking, "Now what?" And I knew I had a decision to make, and I could either continue to play that small game I had played over the course of the last few years or I could go big. And I decided to go big. I decided to get curious about who is this new me.
