Alexandra Niel argues that shrinking after divorce is a missed opportunity. Instead, she chose to go big: exploring a new identity, investing in personal development, and intentionally building a different life from scratch.
and I knew I had a decision to make. And I could either continue to play that small game I had played over the course of the last few years, or I could go big. And I decided to go big. I decided to get curious about who is this new me, who do I want to be, how do I want to craft this new life that I have the opportunity to craft for myself now. So I went totally into the personal development mindset and really learned a lot about myself and about the things that had happened and why I had gotten to the point where I was.
