After divorce, a simple exercise asks you to name what you want in three months, a year, and a lifetime. One speaker dreads these questions because imagining a future self feels unfamiliar and uncomfortable. The tension: you want clarity but facing an uncertain future is hard.
And one of the activities is to sit down and take away all the filters, all the blocks, everything stopping you. What do you want? I bet you had this activity, Alex, too, and you were like, I don't know. And they were like, what do you want in 3 months? What do you want in a year? What do you want in a lifetime, Alex? And I was like, okay, I don't know.
Can I just tell you that was my most dreaded question in interviews? Like, I'm not going to be the same person in 5 or 10 years.
I don't understand this.
