After divorce, you're the only one who can make your dreams real. The speaker uses the film Wish to show how small, consistent actions build momentum, and how balancing planning with vision and joy helps you recreate your life on your own terms.
What if I told you that you're responsible for making your wishes and your dreams come true? Sounds about right, doesn't it? And it makes me think about when I was home with my mom a couple of years ago. I went to see the movie Wish with my niece, and we had such a lovely time. And if you don't know the story behind Wish, it's about this king who holds the wishes of his townspeople and makes them come true. But he ends up going down a really dark path and ends up holding on to everybody's wishes. But the moral of the story is that you basically can make your dreams come true. So I wanted to share a couple of ideas as you're coming out on the other side of your separation, divorce, or uncoupling. You don't have to wait for a shooting star. You are the star. You are the person that's going to make your wish come true. Because let's face it, nobody's coming to rescue you, right? The more that you take small, consistent steps towards your dream, the more momentum you're going to build. Think about that snowball, right? It starts this big and then it gets bigger and bigger until, you know, you end up with a huge snowball or possibly an avalanche. Also know that whatever you dream of for your life isn't random. It also shows you, and that's the beauty of it, because if you don't bring it to life, then there's a good chance that it might not come to fruition, not just for yourself but for anybody. And part of that is also about this whole masculine and feminine energy. The masculine the beauty of it is that it kind of makes the plan, but the feminine energy is what fuels it with that vision, that desire, that happiness, and that joy that comes from making things happen in a way that feels congruent with what that vision is. You actually need both of those to make your dream come true. So I just want to leave you with that. Dream big, dream your dream, think about what is the dream life that you want, because you're in a position right now where you can create anything you want, right? You're starting over. You're not starting from scratch because you've got wisdom, but you are in a unique position to create anything that you want. So I'm going to encourage you, invite you, and just beg you to recreate your life on your terms and make it what you want it to be.
