In this video, Alex reflects on the past six months of personal and professional introspection following her divorce after ten years of marriage. She realizes she has been living inauthentically and decides to pivot her coaching mission. While her original mission helped high‑performing women "banish the hustle," she now wants to focus specifically on women transitioning out of long‑term relationships—divorce or separation. Alex outlines her own journey of rediscovering her values, rebuilding confidence, and aligning her career with her authentic self, emphasizing that this groundwork is essential before inviting a new romantic partnership. She promises to help clients navigate new beginnings, foster self‑discovery, resilience, and confidence, and to break old patterns so they can achieve harmonious professional success and deeply satisfying love. The tone is motivational yet grounded, with a clear call to action for viewers to engage with the revised mission.
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Hey, Alex here. So last week I shared with you what's been going on over the course of the last 6 months. And the beauty of the last 6 months was, yes, I did get a chance to spend a lot of time with my mom, but I also had the opportunity to take a step back, to take a breather, and to take a new look at what I was doing and whether or not I felt like that was congruent with who I am and what my story is. And what I found was that I wasn't being congruent and I wasn't being authentic. Today I want to talk about what we're going to be doing moving forward. So I have some really cool news that I wanted to share with you. For years, The Mission's really been about helping high-performing women to banish the hustle. We've talked about living your best life, making your difference, all while maintaining relationships and your well-being, which is all great, but It wasn't the whole story. What I want to do moving forward is really focus even more closely on women who are just transitioning out of a relationship, whether it is a divorce or a separation from a long-term relationship. It's about helping you to navigate new beginnings. And the goal here is to help you to rediscover your authentic self, to continue on that career path that has served you so well, but but also at the same time learning to get to know you so that you can then, when the time is right, cultivate a love that makes your toes curl. Because who doesn't want that? You see, when I got divorced after 10 years of marriage, I felt pretty much like a failure. I was kicking butt at work, getting promoted, being involved in high-visibility projects, taking on more responsibilities, but at the same time, I felt like I was lost. Even though I chose to leave, it didn't make that transition any less challenging and the loss any easier to grieve. But the surprise was really about how unsure and how destabilized I felt. So I started this journey of getting to know me again. I chose to redefine myself, my values, what I wanted now that I was on my own again, I knew I had to get myself on solid footing before I could even imagine bringing a new relationship into my life because I was determined not to make the same mistakes. And I knew that I needed to really reconnect with who I was in my heart of hearts in order to be able to invite that to come in while at the same time needed to continue to navigate all of the stuff that was going on at work and all of the progress that I was making at work. This is what I want for you, and that's why I'm pivoting. I'm gonna help you to navigate that new beginning, support you through the challenge of starting over, fostering self-discovery, resilience, and really being able to manifest your deepest desires. Don't worry, I'm not gonna go too woo-woo, but I want to help you to really bring your new life forward. The second thing is I'm going to help you to align with your true desires. Will help to harmonize your professional and your personal life so that everything can come together harmoniously. Then I want to work with you to rebuild that confidence. One of the things I found was that I had— my confidence was at the lowest that it's ever been. Together, I want to help you to rebuild that so that you can attract and nurture not just a fulfilling career but that deeply satisfying love. And I want to help you break free of old patterns, because what got us here is not what's going to get us there, right? We had this journey because of who we are, and it's time to sever those ties and create new patterns, change our view of the world, our view of ourselves, so that we can have that success, passion, and meaningful connections. So that's kind of what I see coming. I wanted to share with you because it's an important change, and it may resonate with you, it may not resonate with you, but maybe somebody that you know is somebody who is struggling with something like this. And I wanted to be able to share the new mission with you so that either you can take advantage of it and you can grow, or you know somebody who can. So I wish you all the best, have a fabulous week, and we catch up soon.
