When both partners work, lack of support around chores and childcare becomes a major source of divorce. Make a concrete plan for splitting household duties and actively support each other's personal projects and friendships. Revisit it regularly to keep it working.
Sometimes people divorce because they are not supportive of each other, and the biggest one that I hear about is really household chores and child rearing. In today's day and age, when most likely both parents are going to be working out of the home, establishing a plan for how you want to manage that time together is important. But it's not just household chores, it's also, are you supportive of his creative outlets or his going out with the boys or building a business. And for you, it might be that he's also— in addition to supporting your own household chores and child-rearing duties— is he supportive of you going out with the girls? So the key is to really make a plan that's going to work for both of you, and then from time to time revisit that plan to make sure that it still serves you both.
