Alexandra NielDivorce Recovery Coach, ANiel International, LLC. · I help women who held it all together through divorce finally build a life that’s actually theirs | Thrive After Divorce

You Must Grow to Meet Love Differently #shorts

22 Oct 2024 · 1 min

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In this brief YouTube Shorts video, the speaker addresses people who repeatedly attract unhealthy partners, especially those recovering from divorce. She argues that recurring negative patterns stem from unexamined personal beliefs and urges viewers to grow in three ways: (1) know yourself fully, without filters; (2) identify and dismantle limiting beliefs and behavioral patterns that drive unwanted outcomes; and (3) approach new relationships with a mindset of giving rather than taking. The video ends with a call to follow her for more post‑divorce thriving advice.

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Have you ever thought, why do I always keep meeting the same losers? Well, that's probably because you have some patterns that are on repeat that you may not even be aware of, and you have to dig deep to find out what those are. You have to grow so that you can learn to meet love differently. So here are 3 ideas that can get you to start to think a little bit differently. And the first one is get to know yourself, warts and all, no filters. Number 2, start to understand what are the patterns and the, the limiting beliefs that are at the root cause of your behaviors, your actions, your thoughts. Because once you know what those are, you can start to undo them, especially the ones that aren't serving you. And the third one is think about coming to a relationship to give, not to take. If you like this type of content, follow me for more ideas on thriving after divorce.