Each spouse takes 100% responsibility for the marriage's health instead of splitting it 50/50. When a problem comes up, like a dirty diaper, you just handle it without blame. Both people giving full effort creates a stronger partnership where conflict becomes something you solve together.
I take 100% responsibility for everything in our marriage, and she takes 100% responsibility for everything in our marriage. And so when I see a dirty diaper, I just pick it up. And if she sees a dirty diaper, she just picks it up. And when you lead with that and you understand that you're giving the benefit of the doubt, that dirty diaper might be there because something happened and she had to go and run off and do something. Yep. Knowing she doesn't want a dirty diaper on the living room floor either, but it's there, so something must have happened, so I'm just gonna pick it up. And I'm going to throw it away. And, and when we change our mindset, so if we both go the final percent, 100% responsibility each, we have a 200% marriage instead of a 50/50 marriage.
