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क्या फूल बेचता है। वो इस क्रेजी हैप्पी, रोज हैप्पी, होता है, जैसे खुद मना रहा है.

वो.

बोल सकते है की तू तो बहुत बड़ा बेवकूफ है, खुशी तो तेर को अभी होनी चाहिए, तब होनी चाहिए, जब तेरा गाड़ी आएगी तो फिर खुश हो जाएगा, उसके बाद गाड़ी आएगी खुश है, तेरे पास मर्सिडीज नहीं, दुनिया को बोली की मर्सिडीज तो सबके पास होती है, तो 2 मर्सिडीज होनी चाहिए, टिकट जरूर दिखती है, लेकिन जब आप वहाँ पहुँचते हो तो वहाँ वो जगह नहीं मिलती। आपको बोला जाता है की 1 और टिकट ले लो और आगे चले क्या मतलब सक्सेस मिल जाएगी। सोरी थोड़ी सी गलती हो गई थोड़ा आगे चले, आगे चलते रहे, सक्सेस नाम की कोई destination ne my name is avira father of two girls six husbend to a super boman, ternwodariafounr of internet mogslitisingenlban boys in girls, welcome to nother episode of the ask avalia show, where we have amazing infuencive people from different parts of the world, we are coming and sharing their tours and also asking question from li pontopnoshiphappenas in everything in between today, we have a special guest mahati? who am bigriistheacnof cralityandcrali? you dont leave your life fully for that?

When you are starting your jerniasantrprnr, did you have times? when you wanted set in result and did not get them, then how did you motivate you re self come to this place, where you re a right, now in that success place?

Okay i anser this question in to part? न plaसकॉलsugcess उसकी पिक जरूर दिखती है, जब आप वहाँ पहुँचते हो तो वहाँ वो जगह नहीं मिल सकती। आपको बोला जाता है की 1 और टिकट ले लो और उसको आगे चले जाओ, फिर कहते हो ट्रैवल एजेंट से पूछते हो यह क्या मतलब है? आपने सक्सेस वहाँ जा के मिल जाएगी, सौरी सर थोड़ी सी गलती हो गई, थोड़ा आगे चले जाओ, आगे चलते रहे। सक्सेस नाम की कोई डेस्टिनेशन नहीं है, राइट थिंग ऑल डेस्टिनेशन सक्सेस बिकॉज सक्सेस। इसका मतलब यू हैव। टू बी हैप्पी फ्रॉम इनसाइड टू बी एबल टू से। जहाँ मैं हूँ, वहाँ मैं काफी हूँ, और जहाँ मैं जाना चाहता हूँ उसकी में जर्नी को इंजॉय कर रहा हूँ, कोई भी आदमी कहीं नहीं पहुंचता, कल मैंने बीयर ब्रहम का इंटरव्यू देखा, एंड उसने बोला की मैं अपने आप के साथ इतना हार्ड होता हूँ, रोज जिम जाता हूँ, कोई चीज़ दे नहीं देता, कोई किसी भी दिन में ऑफ़ नहीं देता, मुझे लगता है अगर मैं ये सब करूँगा तो किसी दिन मेरे से सब कुछ छिन जाएगा, मैं सदर रहा हूँ दुसरे लोग, इतने शो, सी, एनी लेवल, एट एनी सिंगल पर्सन इज नथिंग कॉल? वेस्ट नेशन सक्सेस, बहुत सारे लोग हैं जो अभी स्कूल में है, कॉलेज में है, डिफ्रेंट लेवल में है, वो आपकी जर्नी देख के कह रहे हैं की काश में वहाँ पहुँच जाओ, आप किसी की जी देख रहे, कोई किसी की जर्नी देख रहा है, कोई कहीं पहुँचा नहीं है, पहुँचते हम यहाँ ऐसी है, क्यूँकी? आप बोलोगे ये बड़ा है या दिमाग से नहीं पहुँचा तो कहीं नहीं पहुँचा? और दिमाग से कहीं पहुँचने के लिए हमें अपने आप से बात करनी होती है की मेरे को किस चीज में खुशी मिलती है। और अगर वो चीज करके आपको रोज खुशी मिल रही है तो आप बोलो मैं नंबर वन सक्सेना की कोई डेस्टिनेशन नहीं है। दूसरी बात यह है की अगर आपको लगता है की कोई चीज ऐसी होती है बिजनेस में नहीं चलती है चलती तो ये एव्री सिंगल डे 365 दिन, दिन में 6789 और 12 मीटिंग होती है। कभी कोई मीटिंग किसी न किसी मीटिंग पर फ़ोन आता है की ये वाली चीज टूट गयी, ये वाला सिस्टम नहीं चल रहा है। अरे यार 12 साल से पंद्रह साल से कंपनी चल रही है, अभी भी सिस्टम टूट रहे हैं। क्यूंकी आप यू आर वॉल्टिंग यू र ग्रोइंग so there are things, which are not working every day, there are talpade which are not working av कुछ न कुछ होता भी है नहीं how d you keep your self motivated because in the past things have work। सो यू नो की 1 रियलाइजेशन की चलेगा तो दुर बट मेरे रस्ते से शायद न चले तो मैं रस्ता बदल दूंगा, मैं रास्ता बदलूंगा और मेरे कुछ सक्सेस मिल जाएगी तो जरुरी नहीं है थर्ड टाइम में वो सेकंड या फर्स्ट में से कोई चीज़ करूँ, शायद थर्ड में उनकी कॉम्बिनेशन चलेगी सो द वन थिंग टू सेल्फ एवरी डे मेरा काम रोज सुबह उठके कोशिश करना और पूरी कोशिश करना भी पॉजिटिव होगा। नहीं होगा वो हंड्रेड परसेंट नहीं है। किस तरीके से होगा ये पता नहीं होगा। जरूर सो यू मोटीवेट योर सेल्फ नोइंग गोन टू हap्पीएंडसकसिकस नाम की कोई डेस्टिनेशन नहीं है, कोई कहीं भी पहुँचता नहीं है, आपको अपने माइंड से बनाना होता है की मैं पहुँच रहा हूँ, तो फिर आप कभी भी किसी भी लेवल पर पहुँच जाते है। सो दिल्ली में 1 जगह है, डिफेंस कोरनी डिफेंस, कॉलनी में 1 जगह है। वो मार्केट है बहुत ही फेमस मार्केट, वहाँ 1 फुल वाला है, फ्रॉम यंग लड़का है 16, 17 साल का, या बंगाल ऐसी है या फूल बेचता है, वो उसके फल है, इस क्रेजी हap्पीवोऐसेरोज हैप्पी होता है जैसे उसका खुद का टाइम डे मना रहा, उसको कितनी बार मैंने उसको बोला मैं अमेजिंग उससे फूल लेने का दिल करता है। वो कहते हैं सिर में पिक्चर देखी थी, हिंदी पिक्चर उसमें कहता है। उसको देखने के बाद मेरे को लगा था की बड़े बड़े लोगो को जो गाड़ियों में आते हैं, बड़ी गाड़ियों में को फूल बेचूंगा आप बोलोगे ये क्या सपना है। सपना तो ये होना चाहिए की फूल की दुकान अपनी खुद की खरीद लो, जो गाड़ी बड़ी देख रहे है, गाड़ी में खुद ओनर बन जाओ, तब खुशी मिलेगी। वो कहता है मेरको जिस चीज में खुशी चाहिए थी, मैं छोटे से गाँव रहता था, गाँव से मैं शहर आया, डेवी आ गया कितनी बड़ी चीज है मेरे लिए, मेरी फैमिली में कोई देरी नही आया और बड़े बड़े लोग मेरे को मेरे नाम से बुलाते हैं और मेरे से फूल लेते है तो मेरा सपना पूरा हो गया खुश रहता है.

वो.

बोल सकते है तू तो बहुत बड़ा बेवकूफ है, खुशी तो तेर को अभी होनी चाहिए खुशी तेरको तब होनी चाहिए जब तेरे बाद गाड़ी आएगी तो फिर वो ना खुश हो जाएगा फिर जब उसके बाद गाड़ी आएगी खुश हो जाएगा हम बोले तो बेवकूफ है तेरे को खुश नहीं होना चाहिए क्यूँ मर्सिडीज नहीं है ना खुश हो जाएगा। फिर वो मर्सिडीज लेकर आयेगा, फिर वो थोड़ी दिन खुश रहेगा, फिर दुनिया उसको बोले की मर्सिडीज तो सबके पास होती है तो 2 मर्सिडीज होनी चाहिए तो वो टाइम से खुशी तो आज ढूंढनी है इसीलिए खुशी आपको प्रोसेस में मिलेगी और प्रोसेस आपके मतकबकाहोनाचाहिए फोर्स प्रोसेस होता है तो कभी कभी खुशी मिलनी मुश्किल होती है उसमे ढूंढनी पड़ती है प्रोसेस यू हैव तो इंजॉय म हेल्पिंग पीपल और पीपल कमिंग से आपका ऐसी मेरा लाइफ चेंज हो रहा है और वे छोटे छोटे छोटे छोटे आर क्रिएटिंग एनर्जी कर्मा पॉइंट क्रिएटिंग दोस्त और वो एकदम किस दिन बैठ के वो हमारे को रिजल्ट देता है बिजनेस में ही कैसे हुआ और को इंटरव्यू देना चाहता हूँ बताओ कैसे हुआ में सारी चीजें पॉजिटिव तो थी नहीं लेकिन मैं भी पूरे में positive सो it is such of mental game that would be my s.

My second question profesional men jegalealotbitin live kids you have master it, you on winning poslpीससोtht, you can also spend time with योर डॉटर, you also work, you do everyथिंग so, what would be you are sugestion for this professional, woman i.

Believe that especially is my mom is as been working, always and my dad is always is wanted her to do more work and she s always wanted to be a good mother, wanted to be a। तो मैंने उनको देखा बैलेंस करते हुए, फिर मैंने अपनी सुपर वुमन को करते हुए, गेट सेपरेट फॉर इन मॉर्निंग नाइन दुनिया ऐसी मेरी बाइक को कोई फर्क नहीं पड़ता टीवी शो आ रहा है किसी के घर में शादी है कि कुछ है उसे 9 बजे सो जाता है सो 1 तो मैंने ये देखा है डिसिप्लिन चाहे वो मेल हो फीमेल हो जो भी बैलेंस करने की कोशिश कर रहा है diiplnmebhothelp number to think for specifically for woman who trying to balance i think i understand litlebitophow to do weppenarshowto do seving through facebok, gas, getting clinte realize that just work with the laptop and do this from anyvarinthewold, then you have to travel in get out of the house and go meet somebody and उसमें जो time lgt है time management e crab हो जाती है so if you can do everything will save time, so i think this is a new scale of twenty twenty two women to learn to be able to run facebok go to be able, get the right clints call with them to them on the call service them on the call not have to travel.

Third question i have the program called hiway to happiness this is the program var i bring my meditation coching in everything so that people can balance and come from these triggers that now that cals anger and call this in to happiness back again so if you have one to happiness what would that we.

You happy when your friends and cusanarecoming home when you have an event when you caching up with all friends and all cousens at some marcishousof some family beding hapniandeverybody gets together you for get everything in ur the happiest indian italian many other people have big large families and they meet for get everything now when it comes to the nuclear family have as all family in you come back home has avittam back hom atomatic feel happy so building in reward points what happened this we become very hard on my self thinking that become hard on myself i will become successful because hard work people think is harshworkitisnot harsh hard work men s work concentrated focused and regularly consistent action it doesnt mean ben harsha yourself on people say i be hard so my self i stop meeting my family stop doing this munde fra i think we should build more reward points evening take the family for a work every evening i can do that we are all very vuslbisitydoing war chasing a way happiness this is the happiness that you need for your business in fact i feel most corporation big corporations have rules for their employees and everything and people follow these rules so they should put in the thing report to me your family time that you had the bat should ask what we the our family time that s the employs going to be happy about it this the happy employs you want to work with so that one the other thing is sometimes that are friends family also the people who you said down with an world is the beautiful place so building reward points in cada the end of every day may be a calle with somebody at the end of every week and mid be build in these people who you wanted to talk to that s that it is a lift you may be a meditation may be mental ship group believe everybody should follow a school people who are watching matis program is amazing master if you are watching this in you feel somebody who you need to long to you to radiation of positivity all the time the to people i would suggest a dent i⁇mgotopothelink in the comment because you have to find your places of happiness and you have to go there go there means you can virtually go there i do i have cusansindiferent parts of the world and have organized a one in a month zoom call with body o my god it is so much fun because everybody come from frent time zone somebody s gate book by its crazy they come to family is an oder that it s a beautiful zomtoallthat happen what you look forwar to it it before exiting the day after is exciting so we have to insert inject happiness point.

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Life masti is me being able to master this very moment, right now if i am able to be centered and being able to give everything to the question that you re asking me this moment i have master and that next moment i master and then the next moment and in the evening have to go the jim and then there are to many things, which are happening today all of those things right now im thinking। because there s m thing that happen i have to address have to travel hundred today to fix something and right now why am talking to you five percent of mind is vutidaboutthat which is not mastr the full moment, the master of the moment is a hundred percent here your enjoying it you giving it all the other person fees respected and say thank you for giving me everything s master a moment you re dont thing you can master lite master moments not even the day, because that is also stressful o my god i think about the hole day। how my master on number one is planning plan your next week every friday the entire company of man is it together sometimes in difrent department on friday sardana whats going on is that planning planning allow you to master the week ahead properly lets mistakes happen lets areas happen somebody will got unwell some speaker were not work melting will not work i came here to the event for your some call and i just realized that of these its not working। because my data was using the studio last night see change the lie fatafrtltosomethings will go rong ven after every dan, an one is plan your next week plan your next month, plan your next year plan your plant you know we bole we know when holi coming i can ask the date of holi tegnicatermydival york। because the world has plan to festival so we can do things of around that holy day stay in und e comers don around so all that planing has happened now it time to the macro planning for our on life and then is i think meditation could be able to be in the moment you can master the moment i dont in master life, after the moment have a plan and then master the moment more.

Insatfulthenwhat you are making all the different areas। as you said it is lot of confusion fathers also and we are pens also with the point that we have to master everything in our life, but if we keep string the single moment, then it will become autometically masking the entire life that s very nice the last and finals relationship is are very complicated work make people busy so they dont have time for relionshipsthey dont get time to spend with the family and to be frankly by friend hasbend these relationships doesnt get any time they always give the excuse that i dont have time so now in such a case is couple need the advice so that they can spend time that echo what would be the advice for that this these the clinic that i usually get.

Hundred percent hundred percent i get it i think the best thing is a said first we have to oderstandwhatis the reason the reason that i dont want to meet my spouse is first reason is i m not happy with my self i dont feel successful i dont feel live armed i dont feel this is the right time so i m not even ready to face my own ports i dont even on to sit on with myself that s on husband on in the room was working there voiding looking at themself in the mid because some are there blaming themself some level of success they feel they should have gotten at the ad space the have not got so haben rise cause the are not ready to face themself and they dont on the other person jug them based on they dont feel good about them self that is the case the other spouse member should be able to ancai the opposites pause and say in cures dhern smaller things that then if somebody s business is not taking off to did in gris think you a very good call with the clint think the clint really like i think you are right on track you know what i believe in you such a powerful thing it is so powerful just changes everything somebody says i believe in you some people get upset belive how can you bdevinvnting sufring inside thats okay mother also no no you can do it how can i do it never do something you are taling alvast dont tell me my to me the other day to you are amazing said you always keep sing amazing when im not doing something it also the also at least the im not doing something i then you should say not amazing and of that so some times you not happy with on sels other persons compliment you can react like this but that s so keep continue giving that love to that other person if you to one that love back now what happen is sometimes husbend both the lok in that person is not god god some time between problem between both but most of the time is the problem with there on self i believe patan has to be groktinbypoting in a date night on a date after non every i don t have time doesnt mean that you have to go out in have dina or bling nowerdeveryou can just say that that one or we going to talk about what we going to do the next week com a talk about what you want to talk about those kind of things i think you have to be bina you that that time has to be put into the calendar and any one pousehofeeshathe terfous not doing it should say okay let me do more relationship is mabfiftyftyou give all you can the other person give a b a and that s what it is man im not sin tag somebody for grant only one person giving it s a not saying that i m just saying dont try to i did this the other person to everybody has a different way of reacting so that would be on the thing putin system that you going to be niciatywnpotina system for a day at after sting time together or that time doing to the other person the other person rites to you now being the office you and up at the other spouses office and it with them in your time together and then so you can ban drive out of office so over so one person to extra effort and then we we make that event beautiful see what happens with kids also to today when kids not happy what do we do make something happen can i call you your friend you won t go to your friend for a plan pada make events what can i make for you i dont fee eating anything i make you something i make you for make you d buter give you so you break all the rose to make that person happy for child s good in you know that the need emotional to give extra food that can of thing to see it with the spouse one person has to understand it the other person s going through something and the other starts understanding is well and one more thing i always like to say something what happen this if there is the lock jam between i not a couple s export by any jon but i m in the lok jam and to people feel that they can not talk much then that date night can be to couples going togethe you have everybody has some old friends that they call to friend the fixed into a calendar the all four of them go to atniceenevent that happens you start going out as a couple and you start.

Get into the happen im definitely going to type thank you very much thank.

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