Ask this: “What feels hardest right now?”#culture #leadership #motivation #business #coaching

24 Dec 2025 · 0 min
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A short YouTube coaching clip from Ben Chaib offering a single actionable coaching prompt: instead of asking "what went wrong?", ask "what feels hardest right now?" The clip explains this lowers defenses, elicits a truer answer quickly, and lets the coach diagnose whether the issue is skill, confidence, or clarity to build alignment through understanding rather than pressure.

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