A friend compares herself to Victoria's Secret models, but the speaker argues that confidence and self-love matter more than physical looks. How you feel about yourself is what others actually see and respond to.
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So what is better, believing or being? Now, let me tell you a story. My good friend has a normal body. Beautiful. She's gorgeous, but she has a normal body. And the other day she was looking at some Victoria's Secret models, and I was like, oh, my gosh, I wish I looked like that. And she was like, well, I think I look like that. And I remember thinking, like, how beautiful that this girl swears that she looks like that Victoria, Victoria's Secret model. And the truth is that whether she does or not doesn't matter, because at the end of the day, what she conveys and transmits to people is that confidence and that self love. And she teaches them through that how to love her in that manner as well. So whether she's physically that attractive or not doesn't matter because she's very attractive internally. And she conveys that.