Betsy Guerra describes the moment her partner said they weren't in love anymore. She contrasts her ego's angry reaction with what she calls her "wise self" connected to her higher spirit, exploring the choice between defending herself and choosing love.
You sat me in the super comfy couch that you had. You sat me there and pretty much told me I'm not in love with you anymore. And when you said that, it was like, like, like my heart sank and fears Betsy showed up inside of me and she was like, screw him. Like, screw you. Like there's a whole line of men waiting to be with me. And like, you know I don't care like you, right? Because my ego was so bruised. But there's the wise Betsy that was connected to my highest self, the one that has that. It's like super tight buddies with the holy spirit. And I remember immediately after having that thought of like, screw you. Like, how dare you say you're not in love with me Immediately after I thought, like, okay, what do I need to do to love this guy? Like, to get him to fall back in love with me?
How to FIX your RELATIONSHIPS: Understand the attachment styles! #lifelessons #relationship
