Dr. Betsy Guerra, a licensed psychotherapist, author, and international speaker, presents a motivational speaker reel focused on rising above adversity through faith and personal growth. Using her personal testimony—the death of her daughter (noted as 2013)—she argues that grief must be felt and processed, that faith transforms pain into joy, and that suffering is optional. The piece mixes exhortation (cultivate faith, sit with grief) with audience/testimonial moments and frames the speaker's purpose as igniting faith and unlocking greatness so others can use their gifts to elevate humanity.
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Licensed psychotherapist; author; international speaker.
2013
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Do you want to know how to rise above your adversities? I am fascinated by the opportunity of bringing hope into hopelessness. My purpose is to ignite faith, unlock greatness, so that we may use our God given gifts to elevate humanity. I'm Dr. Betsighera and I am a licensed psychotherapist, an author and an international speaker. I take my audiences on an emotional journey that leaves them in inspired to take action. I am also the chosen mother of an angel, which is why you're listening to me today. 2013. God did not make my daughter's heart beat. Is it possible to be happy again? Can we be happy again? What allowed me to truly shift my belief of I'm never going to be happy again and I cannot live without her was my faith. Faith is what's gonna get me from excruciating pain to joy. Faith is what's gonna help all of us, because for me, it was my daughter. But all of you have experienced pain because grief is when we lose our jobs, when we lose our financial security, when we lose our health. I am going to teach you how to cultivate your faith so that you also may go from whatever pain of adversity to rising above anything and unlocking your greatness. And if I could do it, so can you. In order to overcome your pain, you must feel it. You have to sit with it. We think that grief is something terrible and something bad because it doesn't feel good. But grief is the pathway to healing, to joy, to growth. Pain is hope because if you're experiencing pain, then you're healing. Pain is inevitable and suffering is option. When we understand that pain doesn't hurt that much anymore, it becomes what it's supposed to be. Pain with hope, this can save lives. This work that we all do can save lives. She helped us realize that we don't have to dwell in this pain and suffering. There is light at the end of the tunnel. There is hope after hurt. You can feel the hurt and you can get to the joy. She's given hope through her story, through her experience. She's created that. To be able to see someone's perspective of taking that pain to make you grow and to help others grow around you is phenomenal. She gives so much of herself, so much access, so much love to truly make life better with Betsy. See, I'm happy today because. Thank you for being an amazing wife. Thank you for being an amazing mom. Let's put our hands together for my badass wife and mother's daughter, Joe. Me, 1, 2, 3. Are we going to define ourselves by our grief and our pain and what we lost? Or are we gonna define define ourselves by how we rise up and how we use that pain to earn wisdom that can help us guide others through their journey when they're going through something similar? If I was able to rise above my grief and my pain, so can all of us. Sam.