Betsy GuerraBilingual Keynote Speaker, Psychotherapist/Coach, Author, Leadership Training and Life Coach Certification

How to Find Yourself Again After Losing Your Joy #shorts

10 Nov 2025 · 1 min

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A short YouTube monologue in which the speaker (from a video by Betsy Guerra) recounts being 'always happy' and averse to conflict — a peacemaker who avoided arguments — until an abrupt loss of joy left them miserable. The loss initially worsened their life but ultimately led to personal growth.

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I was miserable. Miserable. And I never thought I would be miserable in life, ever. I was always the happiest person. I was never a star athlete. I was never the ladies man. I was never this or that, but I was always me. And me was always happy. Me was always happy. Me was always how are you? Let's have a great time. I don't like unpleasant conversations. I'm a peacemaker. I hate arguing with people. I don't like fighting. Even with all this size. If I've gotten into two or three fights in my life, it. It's way too many. I like peace. It's a good time. I like to smile and laugh. Living a life like that and then all of a sudden, having it all just pulled away really, really, really changed my life. For the worse at that moment, but for the better later on.