Short transcript of a conversation (Betsy Guerra and another speaker) about overcoming self-limiting beliefs by intentionally choosing supportive people. The speakers recount a maternal saying about friends reflecting who you are, emphasize surrounding yourself with people who believe in you, and advise replacing negative relationships that hold you back to enable growth and success.
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When I was little, it would annoy the heck out of me when my.
Mom would tell me, dime con quiegandas.
Y te lire quiedes.
Tell me who you're hanging out with.
And I will tell you who you are. That was her way of saying, choose the right friends. When we surround ourselves with the right people, the ones that are aligned with what we stand for, the.
The people that are going to help us become a better version of ourselves, that are going to help us accomplish.
That change that we want so badly and acquire the success that we're seeking.
People that believe in you more than you believe in yourself.
Those are the people that my mom was talking about.
We need to make an intentional decision when it comes to surrounding ourselves with people that are going to make us greater, with people that we admire, that.
We look up to, that we can model after. Those are the people we want in our lives.
We have to be intentional about choosing.
The people we spend our time with, we listen to and we take advice from.
And many times, our family, our loved ones, our spouses, our friends. People that really love us are the people that are hurting us the most. Because they cuddle us, because they protect us, because they don't want us to go through pain. And pain is part of growth. So if there are people in your.
Life that are negative, that don't believe in you, that hold you back, and.
You feel in your heart that you were created for something greater, believe your inner wisdom and find new people to surround yourself with. Well, if you surround yourself by people that don't believe that you're good enough, that think that you're always going to.
Be the way you are, that you.
Want to change, then you're just going to become one of them. So be sure to place yourself in a group of people, in a support system that's going to make you more.
Of what you want, rather than prevent you from becoming that.