A woman explains why she never resents doing laundry, dishes, or cooking. She sees each chore as an intentional act of love for her husband and kids, especially since her husband values acts of service. The shift from obligation to choice changes everything.
I never do laundry. I never do the dishes. I never cook. I always love instead. What I mean by that is that now when you're cooking, you're not cooking. Like, oh, my gosh, I have to cook. If my intention is to love my husband, and I know that my husband is an act of service kind of guy, that's how he feels. Loved. Then anything that I do around the house, any task, anything that I do to take something off his plate is not a task. Your intention was to love him. Then you're loving him by doing this instead of, like, thinking like, oh, my gosh, I have to do these things. Things. You get to love your kids. You get to love your family. You're doing things with purpose, as opposed to mindlessly.
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