Let's celebrate our children for exactly who they are

Our children are perfect the way they are. They do not need fixing. They do not need to be more like we expected them to be, like we are, like we think they should be. They're perfect the way they are. Some are very sociable. Others don't talk, suffer from mutism. They won't say anything. Others, you know, are to themselves. And they don't have as many friends as we wish they they did. But. But it's okay. It's okay for them. Them to be who they are. And oftentimes we think there's a problem because they're not meeting our expectations and they're. And where we stop paying attention to what they do need. And us trying to give them what they are not asking for conveys the message that there's something wrong with them, that they're defecting.