Betsy GuerraBilingual Keynote Speaker, Psychotherapist/Coach, Author, Leadership Training and Life Coach Certification

The question most people ASK about RELATIOSHIPS... #podcast #betsyguerra #motivation

7 Jul 2026 · 1 min

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Betsy Guerra explains why married people feel lonely: they stop talking intentionally about their dreams and desires. That loss of communication kills the spark. Loneliness isn't a death sentence, she says. It's useful information telling you to get intentional again.

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I asked my friend ChatGPT, tell me what's the question that most people ask about relationships? Why do I feel so lonely even though I'm married? You're in the same home and you feel like you're not connected. You talk logistics, but you don't talk about longings, about dreams, about desires. The in-love spark fades away. And I want to tell you today that if you in any way are feeling a little lonely or disconnected, it's not the end. It's information. I believe, my friend, that the reason you're feeling lonely is because you stopped being intentional. Now, what does it mean to be intentional in your relationship?