ADHD disrupts romantic relationships through communication challenges rooted in reduced executive function, working memory, and lower serotonin and dopamine. Partners struggle with organizing, planning, and remembering. Understanding the neurobiology helps both people stop blaming and start connecting.
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Today we're going to talk about the top 3 ways that ADHD can disrupt relationships. And we're going to look at number one, communication issues. Communication can be really challenging if you have ADHD or you're neurodivergent and your partner is neurotypical. So it's really important to realize that our brains are wired in different ways and to understand the fundamentals of how ADHD works so that you can have fewer communication challenges. If your partner understands that ADHD primarily is low executive function, low working memory, low serotonin, low dopamine, a lot of what that means is challenges with organizing, planning, prioritizing, remembering things in the short term, then that can help to have communication be stronger.