Anxiety specialist Caroline Cavanagh explains that anxiety and excitement trigger nearly identical physical responses. If you know you'll do something anyway, that nervous feeling is excitement, not anxiety. She jumped from 15,000 feet and discovered what felt like fear was actually the thrill pushing her forward.
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But because of the societal focus on anxiety, we are starting to misinterpret anxiety for excitement, because in the body they feel very, very similar. And the way I say to people is, if you know you're going to do it anyway, that's excitement. And anxiety, which is very— it's like a cousin very closely behind, is going to help you to perform better in doing whatever you're going to do. And again, one of those pivotal moments, I decided it would be a really good idea to jump from an aeroplane at 15,000 feet with a complete stranger strapped to my back and just a piece of silk above my head. Why would that be sensible? But it felt like a good idea. And so I signed up for it. And then in the airfield, all kitted up in my orange suit, I was like, what the fuck am I doing? You know, and it was just like, oh my God, I've been to the toilet for the 46,000th time. Getting out this suit isn't fun. But I was gonna get on that plane. It wasn't anxiety that was the dominant emotion, it was excitement. Having jumped out of the plane and landed, the first thing I wanted to do was go and do it again because I've now had that experience. I've stepped outside the comfort zone. Let's do it again.