Growing your comfort zone | @caroline-cavanagh | Anxiety Specialist

27 Aug 2025 · 1 min

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Anxiety specialist Caroline Cavanagh uses a meter-stick and volunteer to show how small, repeated challenges expand your comfort zone faster than you'd expect. Each one-meter step gets proportionally easier but grows your zone by 400%, then 225%, then 78%. The principle: gradual exposure to what scares you works because the stretch shrinks while the payoff compounds.

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Colin, this is a meter stick. Yeah? Can you, with your beautifully long legs, take a step that's a meter? So pleased you can, otherwise you're going to really destroy my speech. Okay, so now let's assume that Colin's comfort zone is a meter squared. Colin, can you take another meter step? Perfect. So to go from 1 meter to 2 meters, that's 100% stretch, but the comfort zone is now 400% bigger. Another step. To go from 2 meters to 3 meters, that's 50% stretch, but a 225% growth. Now, if we were in the UK now, there would be someone running to the edge of that stage with a safety mat, making sure that he doesn't fall off. So, can you pretend you're going to take another meter step and not fall off? Wait! Oh, sorry, I forgot you weren't a dog. 3 to 4 meters, 33% growth, but 78% growth in the comfort zone. Every step that you take, the stretch becomes proportionately easier, but the comfort zone grows disproportionately.