How 3 Brains Theory Helps Men And Women Communicate Better (Relationship Advice)

21 Feb 2019 · 5 min
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In this interview, host Bas Tadros talks with therapist and author Christoffel Sneijders about his "Three-Brain" model, which frames human experience as the interaction of three distinct but interconnected systems: the head (cognitive), the heart (emotional), and the gut (survival/instinct). Sneijders explains how modern medicine and psychology have become fragmented, focusing on isolated parts of the body, which leads to people feeling "stuck" in one domain. He outlines scientific evidence that the gut contains a dense network of neurons and a massive microbiome that communicates with the brain and is linked to conditions such as Alzheimer’s and Parkinson’s. The gut brain’s primary role is survival, governing fight‑or‑flight, immobilization, hunger, thirst, and reproductive drives. Sneijders argues that reframing masculine/feminine energy in terms of gut‑heart‑brain balances reduces gender stereotypes and improves communication in relationships and workplaces. He also suggests that teaching this model in schools could break down stereotypical gender roles. Finally, he directs listeners to his PEEL Academy (Personal Excellence and Leadership Academy) for further resources.

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