Some of the nicest people are NOT safe! #spirituality #healing #spiritual

Name: Some of the nicest people are NOT safe! #spirituality #healing #spiritual
Uploaded: 2025-12-27T11:36:40+00:00
Duration: 1 min 37 s
Channel: CL Palmer
Description: In this monologue, CL Palmer shares a key insight from his spiritual journey: even well‑meaning, “nice” people can be unsafe for someone who is actively…

27 Dec 2025 · 2 min

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In this monologue, CL Palmer shares a key insight from his spiritual journey: even well‑meaning, “nice” people can be unsafe for someone who is actively evolving. He explains two main reasons. First, during personal evolution a person changes, but others may still perceive and treat them as their former self, which creates misalignment and hinders growth. Second, many people carry unprocessed emotional baggage they are unaware of; this baggage sits in front of them and filters how they see and advise others, often resulting in poor guidance or misunderstanding. Palmer advises that, while love and trust remain, it may be necessary to create temporary distance or clear boundaries to give the evolving individual the space needed to heal and continue their transformation. The message is a compassionate reminder to stay safe by honoring one’s own evolutionary path, even if it means stepping back from cherished relationships for a time.

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One of the craziest things that I learned on my spiritual journey is that sometimes even the nicest people are not safe. Now, I don't mean safe as in put you in danger. I mean safe for you to exist in your current form for two reasons. Number one, you are going through an evolution. That means you're in the process of becoming something, and sometimes people only associate you with what you used to be. That means they will treat you like you used to be, and that is unhealthy and totally out of alignment with where you are going in life. And number 2 is people have baggage, and a lot of times they're totally unaware that they even have it. Now, when you work through your baggage, it goes on your back and it gets lighter, but people have not done the work. So it's sitting in the front, occupying the space between you and them, and everything that they experience is being filtered through that baggage. That's why people give such bad advice when you have things that you're going through, or why is it so hard for you to be understood? Because they can only see you and experience you through their baggage. You are healing, you are feeling your feelings, and going through everything that you need to go through. And sometimes that means you need to get distance between people that you like, love, and trust. That doesn't mean you have to stay away from them forever, but you do need to make sure that you have the adequate space for you to complete your evolution. So stay safe.