attraction method Summary

Hey, welcome back to another video. And I want to summarize this module because it's very important. If you overlook this, then you're making a mistake. You're making a mistake. And it seems so simple. And like I said, just as a reminder, like these little lessons, like the smiling, the giving out good vibes and all that other stuff. Yeah, it's like, okay, yeah, I've heard this before, blah, blah, blah. Or maybe you haven't. Okay. But it still is a simple concept. But you gotta consider the package of putting it together, okay? And, and the reason why I made this module a certain way, and that's why I'm saying this in this module summary to give you a more lengthy, in-depth answer about this, is that you gotta put this together because the giving out good vibes, the smiling, and the eye contact, that is the physical more part of it, okay? If you can do that, Then really the only thing you're going to concentrate on is just your words at that point. Okay. And so it's not bad unless it's like a physical escalation, which is Night Game. But really this part of the section of this is Phase 1. So hopefully you've done the 7-day challenge. Phase 1 is like 7-day challenge on steroids. I never quite explained it that way, but that's what it does and it'll get you to that next level. So. At that point, if you can smile, if you can have good eye contact, and if you give out good vibes, then all you can focus on at that point is just your words, right? And yes, there are certain things that you should be saying and thinking and doing while you're talking to the woman. But at the same time, I try to cover it in that sense so that you can get a good foundation of what to do. Because if you can at least have good eye contact, give out good vibes, and smile, even if you're saying some dumb shit, She's gonna be okay because she feels like you're coming from a better place. All right, so that's why I have it here. And like, don't sleep on it. Package this together. You know, if this seems simple for you, if this seems like, okay, yeah, I get it, I should smile, I should give out good vibes— no, no shit. Okay, well then apply it. Apply it. Take, take heart of this and, and really make this second nature to you, because phase 1 is about implementation. It's not really always about knowledge. Some of the stuff in here is like common knowledge. If you've watched a lot of content, then you've heard this stuff before, or like you've maybe even seen examples of this. But this is like implementation of understanding the foundations because I, I'm trying to get you guys away from all of this different information and some of it's useful, some of it's not. This is concentrated to where if you focus on this thing, if you focus on eye contact, giving out good vibes, physically escalating, all these different things, teasing, all these different open— asking open-ended questions. If you start focusing on these things, they will actually build into something greater. And I will show you how to navigate the convo as we keep going forward. So this is like the foundational steps. This module specifically, it's is just kind of like the foundational steps of what I'm trying to build for you in this. And so if you can understand that and then actually package it together, if it seems simple to you, then by all means do it. And again, like, half of this is knowledge, the other half is the implementing part, okay? And that's why phase 1, I talk about getting to talking to the woman, saying hi, and then leaving, but you're still Smiling, you're still doing eye contact, you're still doing all this stuff. And you can even still apply what's even used in the Confidence Challenge to Phase 1 as a good addition, because it's basically— Phase 1 is going to be the Confidence Challenge but on steroids. So it's going to help in that progression to really make a difference. So if you can get this down, this is going to set a good foundation. If you can actually do Phase 1 and go into Phase 2— there's only 3 phases, okay, but they, they get intense more as they go. Um, but if you can do that and also do where you're the layer of intent on top of that, and then you do that for a week, then you're in a really, really good spot. You're ahead of so many other guys. But that's not even where I want you to get to. Like, this is like the starting line, man. This is like— we can get to the quarter mile, we're not even halfway, you know what I'm saying? Phase 2 is like halfway, and then a little bit more than halfway when you add the intent layer. And then phase 3 is like We're going for the kill. Like, we're going for the kill. So it's, it's one of those things that I have this set up for a reason, because I want you guys to progress, and I want you guys to be real with yourselves and actually try. Actually try to do this. Actually try phase 1 and do that for a week and hit your goals and try to see, okay, what did I miss? What did I do good? You can get posting this community to keep yourself accountable and, and, or reach out to me and I will keep you accountable for sure. And it's one of those things that But like, when you do phase 1 and actually do it, then all of a sudden this simple shit ain't so simple. Why? Because you're combating approach anxiety, which I talked about in the last module. We, we try to get through a certain habit of doing things because most guys are so scared to making socializing a new habit. And we're so in this era of computer era and AI, and it's awesome. But at the same time, we're so comfortable with our phones, we're so comfortable with a laptop or whatever, and we don't go out and we don't socialize. And there's a reason why a lot of guys are behind because of that. So I'm trying to catch you guys up. That's why take phase 1 seriously. Okay? I can't stress that enough. Take it seriously. Make it a goal. Actually implement this so that you can actually get ahead. Okay? So that's pretty much what I have for you guys on that. And then working on appearance, all right, and being the best you. So like, being the best you is basically like, let's cut the shit, let's cut the bullshit, bro. Let's cut getting high all the time. Let's cut, you know, any extra drugs or anything that's just gonna stop us, or smoking, all these different things. Like, if we're healthy and we're sober and we're actually trying to hit a goal in our lives One, more women will respect that and more women will find value in you in that. And then also for yourself, you can accomplish so much more. Okay? And I remember in my beginning coaching days when I would take a guy out and I didn't know any better, but like I would take him to do night game first. And that's like intimidating, especially for like a first, like beginner guy. And he's up for it and everything. And like some of the guys are up for it. And then like you would go to a loud club and like music's bumping and I just see the nerves on them and I'm like, oh man, like I, I, I went too far with it. But it's like, it's one of those things like they were nervous and then like they, they, they shot to the bar and like immediately was like, had to get a drink or two just to calm them down, just to approach women. It's like, let's get past that because the reason why, guys, like, look, it's almost like a juggling act. Okay. Like, because like once you Apply what's in this module and in the next one, and you start combining the two with the open-ended questions, with being witty, with navigating the convo, with teasing, with physically escalating, and you add all these different elements together, it is like this big juggling game. And it's like, why would you want to dull your senses? Why would you want to Not be sharp when you need to be sharp the most, you know what I'm saying? And ironically, as this is, is that especially when you're learning this, like, you don't want to be dull. You don't want to be like half drunk or tipsy, and then you're trying to spit out like, you know, like a good convo, like, and try to give her a good experience. Like, it's just hard. And ironically enough, it— like, the more experienced you are, the less sharp you need to be. But at the same time, that sharpness— I always take that as a winning edge. Like, even for me, like, I know how to go through the things. And there's times where I still get tipsy sometimes, or I'll, I'll drink and stuff like that. I'm not too crazy about it, but it's— there's times where it's like, if I mess up and like, oh, like, like, oh, I should have, shouldn't have drank. Like, I'm like, like, I missed this. I missed them. Like, fuck. Like, you know, I really get hard on myself on it. It's one of those things that's like, you can get so much more out of it and ahead when you're sober, man. And I'm not just talking about just women in general, because it all bleeds over, man. Life bleeds over into itself, okay? And so it's, it's that discipline of you trying to do something better and you shooting for your goals, your goals that are actually actionable and actually attainable, that you make for yourself. And you respect yourself so much that you are willing to follow those goals Regardless of who's judging you, regardless of what's going on, dude, that's mad respect for yourself. And also, you're just gonna accomplish a lot more. Like, that's, that's it. Like, I don't let anybody stop me from my goals, you know what I'm saying? If I'm gonna approach 50 women in a week and just break that down to 5 days, 10 women a day, I'm gonna fucking hit my goal. I'm going to do it. And if for whatever reason I miss a day, For whatever reason, I'm gonna make up for it for the next day. Why? Because I want the accolades, or I want like pride, or I want to be known as a great dating coach? No. Because as a person, actually, before I was even a dating coach, I made these numbers and I did these numbers. And it helped me grow because I know I needed to get the reps in. Just like if you go to the gym and your goal is to go 3 times a week, Then go fucking 3 times a week. All right, it's the same shit. I make it to where you have the goals already implemented in the 7-day challenge in phase 1, to where you could just go and do and have that as the goal and have that as the baseline. And if you're struggling, then take it back a little bit and ask for help. And I'm totally fine with that. And some guys get stuck, and if you guys really get stuck, you can sign up one-on-one with me and I will take you to the next level. You want to go fast and you want to have someone push you, then that's what I'm here for, you know what I'm saying? Because after premium, you got everything, you got the game, like you got it all. I don't gatekeep past premium, I don't. But at the same time, if you want to go fast and you actually want to be efficient with it, then by all means, you know, let's, let's book that one-on-one call. But anyways, you got to get to the place to where you can start hitting these goals and start really making an impact in your life to where it will actually start to take form. Okay, so don't take this as light information that could be, okay, yeah, I know this. Okay, implement it. All right, do it. Give out good vibes, smile, have eye contact, or ask open-ended questions, you know what I'm saying? And be the best you. Don't, don't let drugs or anything stop you from getting in your way. And also with the appearance thing, so like right now looksmaxing is like the biggest thing right now, and there is some stuff to it, okay? And so I'm not going to get into like the weeds with the red pill and the blue pill and all this other stuff, and a lot of you guys understand and know this stuff. The thing is, is like your appearance is good, okay? I, I always assimilate this as your looks is like the COVID of a book, okay? It helps you say hello. It helps you say hi. Anything past that and it really doesn't, okay? And a lot of other guys that are like so big on looks maxing is like, no, it's everything, and like she can even fall for you even more. No, no, no, no. It helps you say hello. It helps her get interested in you. Do looks matter? Should you work on your looks? Yes. But is it everything? Hell no, I don't think so. I seriously doubt it. There have been so many times I can't even tell you where I know and I sense that the woman is being neutral towards me when I'm talking to her. She's very neutral. She's actually giving me short answers. Some of them are even like negative, guys, like in the beginning it's like negative. And slowly as the convo going, or as the night is going on, boom, she's opening up more, she's opening up more. And it's like all of a sudden it's like This attraction that came from nothing, or maybe even like a little speck, came to like this bigger and bigger and bigger. And it actually got to where I got her number, I went on a date, and it just went from there. If I was just going off of looks, I seriously doubt I would have just like landed that 10 out of 10. Like, I seriously— like, there's been so many different times where it starts out so neutral and she's literally feeling you out because women are feelers. And it's one of those things that's like, yes, work on your looks. Yes, it helps you say hello. It really does. Okay. But past that, the pages of that book is how you talk. It's how you give out good vibes. It's teasing. It's asking open-ended questions. It's navigating the convo. It's staying in the conversation long enough. It's seeding the date. It's asking for the number in a confident way. It's making everything seem natural and making her feel good and having her associate you with a good experience. It's all of those things that lead up, and those are the pages. Those are the things that I'm huge on. Okay, looks, yes, it, it is good. But at the same time, I, I'm not gonna lie, I kind of focus on looks, but I really don't. I really don't. I have this like dad bod, like little tummy thing, and I'm working on it. You know, there's times where I'll like Shrink it down, and there's times where I won't. But it's like I I just I've gotten lazy, and I've I've just worked on my mouthpiece so much and interacting and and making sure that the interaction is good and physically escalating her and logistically leading her and all these different things that I that I mention and and go through that yeah I've gotten a little bit lazy. And so I even with the dad bod stomach that I have, like I make it work, and I'm just lazy. So it's one of those things. But I'm actually working on that even like right now because. why not, you know what I'm saying? Uh, yeah, I just keep getting in my 30s and it's like, man, I gotta, I gotta get in shape now. If I'm not gonna get in shape like now, then, then when, you know what I'm saying? So that's just a personal thing. But at the same, make that your goal. Like, you know, if you want to, if you got to work on your looks, if you're really, really chubby or really fat, then work on it, you know what I'm saying? Uh, you don't have to be super stocky. I've, I've seen studies on it, but a lot of girls just want a guy that is skinny, you know what I'm saying? Uh, to some degree, you don't have to be like you know, third world country skinny, but, you know, just more just fit your frame, you know what I'm saying? And it just depends on the age and different things like that, you know what I'm saying? I think a guy in his 50s, you know, or 60s or something like that, if you're like older, I think if you could just fit in a decent— if you can look good in like a dress shirt, that's like a win, you know what I'm saying? Like the bar is low. And the younger you are, then yeah, you know, it gets a little bit more competition in this sense. But at the same time, you don't need like this ripping six-pack, you know what I'm saying? I'd rather have a mouthpiece than a six-pack any day. Actually, it's ironic because the older that I get as a dating coach, I take a lot of these young guys that are 22, 23 years old, and they look better than me. Like, literally, they look better than me. They're younger than me. And I'm not— I'll flex, but I'm really not trying to flex. But it's one of those things where I'll show them, you know, how to get a number. And we'll, we'll go, you know, back and forth, and at the end of the night I'll get the number and they don't, you know what I'm saying? So it's like I've lived that so much as whenever I've done my one-on-one before I even joined school. So it's, it's one of those things, it's like, yeah, looks are important. Yes, work on them. But at the same time, don't, don't believe the hype of, man, you just— if you looks max, Everything and your eyebrows are perfect and your beard is on point and your hair is dealt with in a certain way and you have this ripping 6-pack abs that the woman's just gonna fall for you. Like, that's complete bullshit. Complete bullshit. She'll say she'll be more into you, probably. It'll help you in the beginning, but it's not gonna sustain you as it goes on. You still gotta have a good mouthpiece and everything else that I just mentioned. Okay. All right, so that is pretty much the summary that I have. I have a little bit of preview of stopping her, you know, the wrong way from behind, stuff like that. And that's like a little stuff that I have in my premium package. And I have more quality videos in my premium package. And if you actually want the exact game of what to do, what to say, and everything, like I said, after premium, I don't gatekeep this stuff, guys. So That's all I have for you guys in this video. I want you guys to just understand that put this stuff together, implement this, so this is— this can change your life. Don't let this just be information. Let this be a practical practice round where you're actually going, you're actually doing, and you're actually hitting your goals. Because that's what matters at the end of the day, is that you can hit what's going on. You can actually go through The seven-day challenge, and you can complete that. You can actually go through phase one and complete that. That's what it's for. It's not this like okay, this is nice. No, no, no, no, no, no. Go and try to actually complete phase one. You're in this module right now, so I'm assuming that you did the seven-day challenge. Okay, so go and do phase one and do that well. Use these resources, guys. That's what it's for, so that you can actually do because as you do things. Your reference experience is gonna grow. And when your reference experience grows, gonna actually click of like what to learn, or when you actually make that mistake, then you'll see that a lot of this stuff is bad habits. A lot of this stuff, man, when I first started, it was just, I, I didn't realize how I was riddled with bad habits. Like, and, and it wasn't like, even though I knew exactly what to do to some degree. I had a general idea of what to do because I paid for coaching to help me get to that next level. And it was one of those things that even with that, if I didn't actually go out there and try and implement this stuff, then it showed me, even though I knew what to do, the habit still kicked in and I would've never known if I didn't try. I would have never known that I had a bad habit of being way too nice and keeping the conversation friendly and never getting to flirty. That was my bad habit. That was a huge bad habit. And I know that that registers with you guys because I see that a lot when I coach you guys. I have to shake the nice guy out of you a little bit. You know what I'm saying? That doesn't mean you have to be savage or whatever. But it's one of those things that's like, we have to actually implement this stuff to where the mirror can actually be shown what's going on. We can't have footage if you never play the game. All right, play the game, bro. Play the game so we can have the footage to where we can hit the replays and so you can understand where you are. And then guess what? When you actually do these reps, when you actually do phase 1 and you hit a brick wall, Then the next thing is just ask me, ask the community. Hey, you know, I did this and she reacted this way. What could I have done differently? That's that's the perfect response to it. All right, we're not here to try to like hang the next guy or like ridicule. No, this is a place to like encourage each other and do constructive criticism. It doesn't have to be all positive, but at the same time, if it's negative, it's because it's for a reason to where you can get better at this stuff. All right, so. That's what I have for you guys, man. So go out, do phase 1, learn this stuff. This is just gonna help you grow. All right, so that's all I have for you guys in this video. See you guys in the next.