JCJohn CorderoI am a dating coach that teach single men to date better

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31 Aug 2026 · 0 min

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John Cordero breaks down why generic greetings fail on dating apps and shares a two-step opener: start with "Did I ever mention what caught my attention about you?" then follow up with "There's something unpredictable about you. I kind of like that." He says the second line works because it's funny and builds attraction.

Stop sending girls, hey, hello, how are you? It doesn't work. To grab her attention and make her chase you, I will show you a real-life example using HiLi dating app. Here's what to send her first: Did I ever mention what caught my attention about you? And once she replies, and believe me, she will, say this to make her laugh and be more attracted to you: There's something unpredictable about you. I kind of like that. Try this on HiLi and let me know what— how it goes in the comments.