Two people debate whether to date a 6th-grade teacher and football coach. One shares why they broke up with a teacher: the schedule was brutal, early mornings and late nights left no time together, and childcare duties made it impossible. It wasn't about money. It was about their lives not fitting.
So let's say you got a guy, he's a teacher, he's a 6th grade teacher, and he's a football coach. He loves what he does. He's not making 6 figures, whatever the case may be, but he loves what he does. And he checks off every box for you outside of finances. Does he have a chance to be with you long term?
Yes and no. The reason why I'm saying no is because Our lifestyles are not aligned, and unfortunately you have to really look into that because I dated somebody who was a teacher. That story went viral when I said about somebody who was a teacher, and the problem was that it's not about the finances. The problem was that the person did not have like his schedule was he is at work from 7:45 until 6 to 7 p.m., comes home. He has a child. He has to take care of the kid. doesn't have time for me. Let's be realistic. And he literally said, the only time, the only way this is going to work is if, if we live together. And I'm like, but this can't, this is, I don't know you. Why would I live with you? You know, I don't know you. We still have to date and get to know each other. So now the lifestyles are not aligned.
Hmm.
So I think it's very important for me to have somebody who has the same lifestyle as me, because sometimes I'm, I'm, you know, Very rarely I'm going to be available at the time when he's available because I'm here right now. What time we started filming? 7:38 PM. He technically right now he's home cooking dinner. I won't be back until midnight. He gotta be in bed because he gotta get up at 7 in the morning because he has a full day of work. So lifestyles don't align and it's, you have to look at that. It's not about the finances. It's just about, and I love that he's taking care of kids. It's amazing. But it's just realistically, it's not going to work.
Okay, so question, are you saying that you're writing off all 9-to-5 men?
No, I don't write— I don't, I don't write off 9-to-5 men. It depends what kind of 9-to-5 they're doing. I will be very realistic with you because I was in corporate and it depends what they do in corporate because a lot of people who have corporate jobs, they're, they're settling. I don't want a man who settles.
