Chemsex recovery coach Dallas Bragg identifies three psychological drivers: loneliness rooted in unworthiness, boredom from lacking a future vision, and hopelessness from externalizing blame. He argues that building self-worth, creating a life vision, and recognizing your agency are the paths forward.
Here are 3 main reasons that men keep going back to chemsex. Hi, my name is Dallas. I am a chemsex recovery coach. Number 1, loneliness. Loneliness has to do with worthiness. I'm not worthy to be a part of— I'm not worthy to have a strong relationship. I'm not worthy to be included. Number 2 would be boredom. Boredom means that you have not Connected to an impactful vision for your future, a compelling enough reason to move forward. You don't know who you are without meth in your life. Number 3, hopelessness. This is where the victim mentality comes in. You think that you are a victim of circumstance, that you cannot help anything that's happening to you. Nothing is your fault. Those 3 reasons will keep you going back to using until you find the worthiness, until you find that vision forward, until you understand that your external world is the effect of the cause, which is your thoughts. Hope that helps.
