Dallas Bragg argues that blaming external circumstances keeps you stuck. Real change starts inside, not by waiting for better friends, a better job, or a different past. When you change your mindset and actions, the world around you shifts.
Listen, you are looking for the solution to your crystal problem in all the wrong places. You say, if only my circumstances would change, if only my friends were more supportive, if only I had a better job, if only I was raised differently. You think that once your external world changes, or if it could, you'll be in a better place and you can quit using. Gandhi said, be the change you want to see in the world, meaning any change you want in your life begins inside you. Then your external circumstances will follow.
