Skip the pressure to perform. Spend 30 minutes on kissing, touching, and affection without expecting an erection. Emotional safety often brings spontaneous arousal, and honesty with your partner reduces anxiety that fuels ED.
Try to be intimate without using the erection. Just do it, you know, go through the whole thing. And, you know, kiss, make out, touch each other, all these things. And just like, if you get an erection, great. If you don't get an erection, great. Continue to do it. Do it for half an hour. Take the erection off the table. And that allows people for whatever reason to connect, to be more intimate, to be more honest. And then like you said, it's like maybe there was something that you were worried about, like this guy's gonna leave me, that he finally said, and then it's like boom, erection came back. So yeah, that's just like something I wanted to put out there.
