Dallas Bragg on what happens after men quit chemsex: stopping isn't enough. Without knowing who they want to be, they stay numb. His program starts by having men define an ideal future across identity, relationships, work, home, and friendships.
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And that's where the life after chemsex, I really dug into that in terms of who are you after chemsex? And like I said, well, I didn't know who I was, but let's define kind of the ideal self. How do you want to show up? And in my program, this is the first thing I do with my men because a lot of men haven't thought forward. They just focus so hard on quitting that, again, after you've quit, it's like, Well, yeah, I also have to rebuild relationships. I want to build my job. I want to know, I want to be able to sit with myself at home alone. I want to make new friends. I want to live in a certain place. I want to do, you know, who am I? And so what I want to do is lead you through a process of defining your dream, your ideal self, a vision of who you are next. Because how are you going to move forward if you don't have a North Star vision of an idea of who you are or where you're going?