Dallas Bragg talks about finding satisfying sex when early attempts feel empty. The key: recognizing a mismatch isn't failure, it's permission to keep looking. Experimentation and starting fresh can help you reclaim what actually works for you.
We want a fulfilling sex life now. And that doesn't allow for, you know, stumbling, right?
Like, I wanted to find a fulfilling sex life.
And some of the places that I looked were not it, right?
Like, some of the things that I tried, just like, it's like, fuck, this isn't, this isn't it. And as opposed to like despairing, like, no, like, this means that it's just not out there. That's right. Like, okay, this thing is not it. This is not the, this is not the new thing for me. What else is there?
That's exactly right. Exactly right. You have to keep pushing on. You have to keep experimenting. It's actually, actually such an opportunity for you to have a clean slate and to rediscover and reclaim who you are sexually through this process, isn't it?