People often get locked into one way of masturbating, which makes it hard to feel pleasure during sex with a partner. The speaker explains how to train your body and mind to find pleasure through different routes, not just the habit you've always used.
And there's something called idiosyncratic masturbation, which kind of perles into this, which is we get so used to one way, one pathway to orgasm or one pathway to pleasure that it becomes difficult to go any other way. And it does require making different choices, finding a new path, trying a new path to experience pleasure in a new way. And that goes with partner dynamics as well. If you're used to getting yourself off with your hand laying down on your back, it's going to be really hard to be in a partner dynamic where you're fucking somebody or they're fucking you and you might be receiving oral. It's a different feeling. And so it's a little bit of like, how can you train yourself or experiment with different ways to different portals into pleasure? And that is a lot of what my work is, is not just physiological and physical portals, but emotional portals and mental portals of what turns you on.
