Dallas Bragg examines why men turn to chemsex alone in their bedrooms for days, tracing it to loneliness, internalized homophobia, and the need to escape job dissatisfaction or relationship problems. He argues the real issue is unmet emotional needs: connection, attention, affection. He offers free counseling to anyone who comments.
There's a lot of reasons why guys keep going back to chemsex. There's a need for connection, a need for attention, a need for affection, an escape from internalized homophobia, an escape from insecurities, an escape from emotional problems in their life. There's a lot of reasons why you keep going back, and it helps to find that core reason and then give that to yourself in another way. However, more and more of you are coming to me who are using alone. in your own bedroom for days at a time, and you keep asking, why is everyone else wanting to have sex, but I just want to use it by myself? And more often than not, what we find— what I have found with my clients and those that I help otherwise— is that they are trying to escape. They're escaping something from their life. There's something they're trying to avoid, or there's something that they're just not happy with. It could be a job, it could be a relationship, it could be many different things that you have in your life that are unfulfilling. And instead of— because you feel hopeless and helpless and trapped, your only escape sometimes is that 3 or 4 days hand on your dick in front of porn. I want you to know this is your call. This is your summons to take action. This is your time to examine your life and know that it's not too late. It's not too late to find something fulfilling. It's not too late To fill that void that you're trying to escape. If you'd like some help with this, comment now below and we will get you set up with a free session.
