Dallas BraggFormer crystal methamphetamine user, I help men who have sex with men break free from the addictive patterns associated with Chemsex. Currently expanding my expertise by seeking to become a Certified

Pod: Reclaiming Sober Sex

12 Dec 2025 · 1 min

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In this brief podcast excerpt, Speaker A shares a moment of appreciation during their recovery from chemsex, describing how they have begun to re‑experience passionate kissing—a sensation they realized they had been missing. Despite being with a partner for three years, the intense focus on chemical‑enhanced sexual activity had eclipsed natural, passionate intimacy. Speaker B acknowledges the observation. The dialogue highlights the process of reclaiming sober sex, recognizing the loss of natural passion during chem use, and the hopeful rediscovery of authentic intimacy in recovery.

One of the things that I'm appreciating, uh, I'm, I'm appreciating a lot of this process of recovery and reappropriating of my sober sex is that I am re-experiencing passionate kissing. It's something that I realized the moment that I had the first one recently, that I missed that. And it's crazy if you consider that I've been with a partner for, for the past 3 years.
Right.
Because we were so much into, into the chems use that we forgot about being passionate in a, in a natural way. It's crazy.
Yeah. So that's going to lead me into, you went 4 years with no sober sex. Now you are grieving the person that you were on the chemsex. So, but you're also discovering new things like passionate kissing in your journey of rediscovering sober sex.