Dallas Bragg discusses how someone can take responsibility for choices like drug use and allowing device access without admitting to sexual misconduct allegations they deny. The conversation separates accountability for decisions made from accountability for actions not taken.
In a case where there was substance like crystal meth or any other substance involved, and it was apparent that the person was involved in using substance, but they say the sex thing I didn't do, there does, I think, have to be some radical acceptance of how did my decisions to do this one thing lead to this other thing that I'm being accused of that I didn't do. didn't do and kind of look at the connection there and see if you can make headway in approaching some sort of peripheral accountability.
Maybe you didn't pass on that video. Maybe you didn't have it on your laptop. Maybe you didn't, whatever. But this is where you are. You did make a decision that put you in that situation. You decided to get high on crystal meth. You decided to look away and let your devices be used. That's a decision you made. Let me just start with trying to hold myself accountable for a decision I made without attaching it to what I didn't do. Correct.
