Dallas BraggFormer crystal methamphetamine user, I help men who have sex with men break free from the addictive patterns associated with Chemsex. Currently expanding my expertise by seeking to become a Certified

Talking Sober Sex on The AfterMeth Podcast #recoveryispossible

5 Oct 2024 · 1 min

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In this segment of the AfterMeth podcast, the host discusses the challenges and benefits of having sex while sober. He emphasizes the importance of being fully present, noting that men often feel pressure to perform and may become distracted by thoughts. By sharing a personal story about his first sober sexual encounter with another man, he illustrates how pre‑emptive, honest communication allowed both partners to be vulnerable, leading to a positive and enjoyable experience. The speaker reflects that this experience proved he could enjoy sex without relying on substances, reinforcing a message of empowerment and healthy intimacy in recovery.

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But sober sex, you're like, you're actually, you're present for them. And that can be scary because you can be up, you can be in your head about stuff. And it can be, we're men, we're supposed to be able to perform and like all this other stuff. So, you know, for us to be vulnerable, this, this other guy that my first experience, like for us both to be vulnerable and talk about it ahead of time. Yes. Was really, um, helpful. And we had a very nice time. And, and I, afterwards I was like, oh, that was really great. And I, I immediately kind of like was like, okay, I didn't break myself. I didn't break myself. I can enjoy sex without anything else.