Dallas BraggFormer crystal methamphetamine user, I help men who have sex with men break free from the addictive patterns associated with Chemsex. Currently expanding my expertise by seeking to become a Certified

There are a lot of reasons guys keep going back to chemsex. A need for connection. A need for attent

25 Aug 2026 · 2 min

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In this monologue, Dallas Bragg explains why many men repeatedly engage in chemsex, citing fundamental needs such as connection, attention, affection, and the desire to escape internalized homophobia, insecurities, and broader emotional problems. He notes a growing trend of solitary chemsex sessions—men using drugs alone for days, often as a way to avoid unfulfilling aspects of life like jobs or relationships. Bragg emphasizes that identifying the core reason behind the behavior is crucial and suggests redirecting that need in healthier ways. He concludes with a direct call to action, urging viewers to examine their lives, recognize it’s not too late to find fulfillment, and invites them to comment for a free therapeutic session.

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There's a lot of reasons why guys keep going back to chemsex. There's a need for connection, a need for attention, a need for affection, an escape from internalized homophobia, an escape from insecurities, an escape from emotional problems in their life. There's a lot of reasons why you keep going back, and it helps to find that core reason and then give that to yourself in another way. However, more and more of you are coming to me who are using alone. In your own bedroom for days at a time, and you keep asking, why is everyone else wanting to have sex, but I just want to use it by myself? And more often than not, what we find— what I have found with my clients and those that I help otherwise— is that they are trying to escape. They're escaping something from their life. There's something they're trying to avoid, or there's something that they're just not happy with. It could be a job, it could be a relationship, Could be many different things that you have in your life that are unfulfilling. And instead of— because you feel hopeless and helpless and trapped, your only escape sometimes is that 3 or 4 days hand on your dick in front of porn. I want you to know this is your call. This is your summons to take action. This is your time to examine your life and know that it's not too late. It's not too late to find something fulfilling. It's not too late to fill that void that you're trying to escape. If you'd like some help with this, comment now below and we will get you set up with a free session.