Dallas BraggFormer crystal methamphetamine user, I help men who have sex with men break free from the addictive patterns associated with Chemsex. Currently expanding my expertise by seeking to become a Certified

There's a version of Christmas nobody puts on a card. You don't show up. Then you stop getting invit

2 Sept 2026 · 2 min

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In this YouTube monologue, Dallas Bragg outlines eight characteristic patterns that define a "Merry Methy" Christmas—a holiday experience derailed by methamphetamine use. He describes how users stop showing up to family gatherings, become uninvited, schedule their holidays around drug use, fall asleep at events, spend the season isolated in cheap motels, miss holiday messages, experience blurred memories and fail to give or receive gifts, and enter the new year with regret and the same binge cycle. Bragg uses a conversational, urgent tone to highlight the personal and relational costs of this lifestyle, then invites viewers to join a 12‑week, men‑only group coaching program aimed at breaking the pattern and reclaiming a healthier, more joyful holiday season.

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Here are 8 characteristics of a Merry Messy Christmas. I'll, I'll reveal them here and see if any of them resonate with you and see what I missed. Okay, let's look at a Merry Messy Christmas. Number 1, oops, you don't show up for Christmas. You don't show up for gatherings with loved ones, and they come to expect it because that's just who you've become, right? Next, you're not invited. You stop being invited due to the fact that when you show up, you're of it or you're not showing up anymore. Schedule around meth. Your holidays are scheduled around when you're planning to use. If that is it, you're putting meth before your loved ones. Next, you sleep when you're there. Maybe you do get invited, but when you're there, you're falling asleep at the table. You're on the comedown. Is that a Merry Methy Christmas? Inside of a Motel 6. You spend your holidays looking at the dark inside of a cheap motel. Instead of outside enjoying the sights and scenes of the holidays. Next, you miss holiday texts from loved ones. Grandma just wants to tell you Merry Christmas. Next, it's all a blur. Everything is a blur because you're constantly on a comedown. You don't remember anything that happened or any gifts you've received, and you certainly didn't give anybody anything. And lastly, you begin the new year with regret. You begin the new year the way you've been beginning your new years, coming down off a binge, saying, when will this ever change? What did I miss here? And if you're ready to change, I want you to comment group below and you can enroll in our next group coaching program. It's 12 men, 10 men, 12 weeks, and we can get you. It's not too late to have a Merry Christmas instead of a Merry Methy Christmas.