Ashley Willis talks about infertility as a spiritual struggle, not a dead end. She describes three paths to parenthood: biological pregnancy after infertility, adoption, or raising a relative's child. Sometimes releasing stress led people to conceive or feel called to adopt instead.
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One of the lies that the enemy really wants to convince us of is that we're the only one and that we will never, ever have the fulfillment of that desire that God gave us. And, you know, only God knows how that desire is going to be fulfilled. It may be by having a child after years of infertility, you know, biologically having a child. But it also might be adoption. You know, it might be, you know, raising. Like, there might be a family member who passes away and you end up raising their child. I mean, we just never know God's story. So many people I've known who've gone through this, they once, they kind of gave themselves a break and took that stressor off. They. They either got news that they were pregnant, or they both felt an epiphany like, oh, my goodness, we're meant to adopt. You know what I'm saying? Like, there was usually a freedom involved. Some I know ended up deciding to adopt, adopted a child, and then got pregnant later because they stopped. They stopped using any kind of. They took the stress off. They took the stress off.