Dave and Ashley Willis answer how to fix a sex life that feels boring. Start by asking your partner how they think things are going, then share your own feelings about decreased frequency or lack of variety. The goal is reconnecting to intimacy, not just going through the motions.
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How do I approach my spouse if I feel like, you know, things are just kind of blah right now in our sex life? And I would say, you know, you have to go and first ask them kind of how they think things are going. I think it's good to first give them that first kind of word. And then if they say, well, I think things are good, you know, you're hoping that they ask you, well, how do you think things are going? Right. That kind of gives you your end to share with them. But even if they don't ask you the question back, this gives you that opportunity to say, well, you know, I just. I just feel like maybe we're not doing it as frequently as we used to, or we need to, or. I feel like things have kind of become the same old, same old thing. We're not exploring any kind of variety here with positions, with, you know, preferences, whatever, and. And I just feel like we're kind of going through the motions. I don't feel that intimacy, that true connection, which is the entire point of sex, right?