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The Art of Selfless Lovemaking: Prioritizing Pleasure in Relationships

Name: The Art of Selfless Lovemaking: Prioritizing Pleasure in Relationships
Uploaded: 2024-01-21T13:00:40+00:00
Duration: 52 s
Channel: Dave Willis
Description: YouTube video (speaker Dave Willis) discussing selflessness in intimate relationships from a male perspective. Emphasizes that many men are conditioned…

21 Jan 2024 · 1 min

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YouTube video (speaker Dave Willis) discussing selflessness in intimate relationships from a male perspective. Emphasizes that many men are conditioned by quick, self-focused sexual habits (e.g., frequent masturbation, premature ejaculation) and argues men should prioritize their partner’s pleasure through patience, tenderness, and targeted touch rather than rushing to climax.

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She's going to need the warmup process to be longer. We guys are usually ready to go pretty quickly and can, can often climax quickly. We did a whole episode on premature ejaculation. Some of this is kind of, we've, we've trained ourselves to do this. You know, most guys have a lot of masturbation in their past, you know, from adolescent years moving forward, where it's just a quick, self focused process to go from zero to ejaculation as fast as possible. And we're training ourselves, if we do that, to be very selfish lovers. And God's design is that we're selfless lovers, that we're. Our first priority is bringing pleasure to our spouse. So as men, that means being very, very tender, very patient, touching your wife where she wants to be touched, not just trying to rush to your own climax, but to really prioritize her.