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Unlocking Intimacy: The Power of Kindness in Marriage

Name: Unlocking Intimacy: The Power of Kindness in Marriage
Uploaded: 2024-01-21T07:00:28+00:00
Duration: 51 s
Channel: Dave Willis
Description: A short transcript excerpt from a talk advising husbands and spouses that everyday kindness—texts, acts of service, generosity, and treating one's spouse…

21 Jan 2024 · 1 min

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A short transcript excerpt from a talk advising husbands and spouses that everyday kindness—texts, acts of service, generosity, and treating one's spouse with the same care as strangers—builds emotional closeness and enhances sexual intimacy. The speaker warns against a one-track focus on orgasm and emphasizes that mutual love and kindness across marriage fosters romance and better sexual connection.

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Husbands be really mindful not just of taking time and trying to get your, your wife to orgasm, but all those things you do all day long, just being kind to her, texting her, doing acts of service. Just being a loving, kind husband is a huge turn on and that makes her feel close to you. And that's when we feel more inclined to be romantic and then therefore, hopefully do experience orgasm at, at the, as the culmination of having intercourse. But I, I think that sometimes men not, not trying to be unloving, but I think just getting that one track mind of sex can lose track of that. And so we need to, both spouses need to be kind and, and generous and loving and just doing, you know, all the things we know as Christians we're supposed to do that we would do to perfect strangers, you know, as far as just how we treat them, we often forget that with our spouse. And so don't underestimate just being a kind, loving spouse.
That's good advice.
Yeah.
For every part of your marriage, inside and outside.
Exactly.