Dave Willis talks with three people about sex in long-term relationships. A woman in her 50s says she no longer wants certain acts but performs them for her husband's enjoyment. They explore how giving pleasure to your partner can become its own source of pleasure and connection.
And I mean, I was actually talking with some girlfriends of mine. So two of us are in our 40s, one is in her 50s. And we were talking about this and they were saying how like one of them, she's like, I don't, I really don't want my husband doing anything here. I just. She's like, I used to like that. And like, as we've gotten older, I don't really care for it. And she's like. And you know, he enjoys it, so I'll. I want to give him some of that, but it's not for me, you know. And when we're, you know, having sex with our spouse, obviously there's some things that.
Yeah.
Where one is getting more pleasure than.
The other and we. And there is a beautiful act of gaining pleasure by giving pleasure.
Exactly.
You know, exactly. Not to that either of us should, should just always be the recipient of the pleasure. I think it's a. Both of us, it's a give and take.