A brief motivational talk by Brendon Burchard advising listeners to separate mistakes from identity and to adopt a weekly process to let go of recent screw-ups. He emphasizes that behaviors are changeable and should not define who you are; instead learn practical adjustments (e.g., plan better next time).
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You have to have a process every single week where you let go of the screw ups of the week. See, what most people do is they just carry the screw ups, hate myself, failure, screw up, label, screw up, label, and all the mess ups of their life, they start defining as themselves. And the mistake you made weeks ago, you labeled it as part of your identity versus a behavioral mistake. Behaviors change every day. Your behaviors today are different than they were yesterday. Like behaviors are very adaptive and reactionary type of thing. You'll get some behaviors wrong, some behaviors right. But what most people do is they get the wrong behavior and they pull that wrong behavior and they pull it into identity. Like, so what, you got the project in late? Does that mean you're a complete failure? No, it means you got the project in late. Dude, Next time plan better.