Timeless Wisdom: Male/Female Hour - 29 Years Old

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I'm going to throw out a theory today that I once— I threw out once And it is simply this. This is about our society at this time, or at least for the last generation. Something happens to a lot of women around age 29 in the way they look at life, so much so that it may in fact be a cause of a disproportionate number of marital breakups.

That's coming up on Timeless Wisdom with Dennis Prager, and it starts right now.

I am old-fashioned. I like two sexes. Yeah, and another thing, all of a sudden I don't like being married to what is known as a new woman. I want a wife, not a competitor. Competitor. Competitor. Talk about a bit of this crying in the morning thing. It's depression, you know.

Let's get that fixed.

That's what men think, isn't it? What? Unless you've got the answer. Unless you can say, oh, I know this bloke in the Essex Road who could fix that.

There's no point bothering.

How do you write women so well? I think of a man and I take away reason and accountability.

I love him. I love him and I don't care what you think. I love him for the, for the man he wants to be and I love him for the man that he almost is.

What do people have rows about? Money, sex, sex, money.

He wants, she doesn't want.

She wants, he doesn't want. Women have always been a big problem to me, Dr. Fussman. Are you listening, Doctor?

Yes, yes, yes.

Go on, go on. Hi everybody, and welcome to the— to— welcome to the Dennis Prager Show, the male-female hour. Alrighty there. Alright, throat, be good. Ah, my friends, every week at this time we talk about men and women. It's titled The Male-Female Hour, and I'm Dennis Prager, and I welcome you to a truly honest talk about men and women. I mean really honest. There are times that it's so honest and so mature, to use a term that has fallen out of common usage, that I actually tell you that maybe kids under teenage years might not be— it may not be appropriate for. That's not the case this time, but It gives you an idea of how honest we do talk about, honestly, we do talk about these issues. I have, I'm going to throw out a theory today that I once, I threw out once. Do we have that letter, by the way? Oh, is this it? Ah, good, yes. I threw this out once or twice, perhaps, in the course of talking about related ideas, but I never ever developed it. And I fully acknowledge it is just a theory of mine based on observation. It may, it may, and it may not be. Well, that's redundant. If it may, then it may not. You know, like when people say, well, maybe or maybe not, but maybe means maybe not. Anyway, I would love to get your reactions, and I suspect that— well, no, I think men may have something to say about this. But certainly, certainly I suspect a fair number of women. And if not, not. We'll just find out. But if I'm right, it was worth raising, because the consequences of this may affect people down the road, and not long down the road, as you will understand, quite considerably. And that is this: And I have believed this now for, let's see, oh, about 20, 25 years. And it is simply this, at least in our society at our time, I do not say that at all that this is universal. Most of my theories about men and women are universal. This is not. This is about our society at this time, or at least for the last generation. Something happens to a lot of women around age 29 in the way they look at life, so much so that it may in fact be a cause of a disproportionate number of marital breakups. If this resonates with you, call me. Male or female, but it is about females. Males at 29 is no different than male at 25, male at 35. Males may have a midlife crisis, which of course could be at 50, at 60, at 45, at, I don't know, I don't know. I would say those 45 to 65, I guess. But that's a very broad period of time. That we all know about. But there seems to be something that happens at around 29 to a lot of women who all of a sudden start asking, and the phone number here is 1-8-Prager-776, 1-8-Prager-776, which is 877-243-7776, 877-243-7776. And it appears that at about age 29, a lot of women start asking, who am I? What am I? What do I want in life? Why am I here in this marriage, in this relationship, in this work, in whatever? And it's like it overtakes them. It's like a If there's a midlife crisis for men, then I don't know, is this an early life crisis? I don't know what to call it. A 29-year— it's almost like an alarm clock. And look, if I didn't see this in more than a few cases, then I would never even bring it to your attention. And certainly I wouldn't broadcast it on a national radio show. I mean, it would be embarrassing if I knew 2 people that something happened to and then say, folks, You tell me, do you find an increase in, I don't know, dandruff at the age of 36? I mean, it's not like that. It's that I have just too often seen it. I mentioned this once in passing and I received a number of responses. Here's an example of one from a Katie in Scottsdale, Arizona. Subject: 29 is the magic number? Please, please, please expand on this, Dennis! And then 3 exclamation points. This woman is into, uh, trinities. Please, please, please! 3 exclamation points. I have to know the theory. I am 29 and have undergone tremendous changes in the past year. I actually just told my husband the other night that I don't want to be married to him anymore. I love him and I don't want to end it, but he is such a miserable, selfish pain anyhow. This is just one of the many quote-unquote changes. If you have some insight into this, then we, the royal we, need it. Then it's one exclamation point. Alrighty, so let's see if— by the way, if this is so, if there really is this phenomenon in our society then it— there should be some— it should have some effect on the— on marital decisions that men and women make. And, and I'll, I'll talk about that. It doesn't mean you don't marry a woman under 29, but it, it means that care be taken by the woman and, and the man. Uh, has the— has she thought through a lot of things already, if it's even possible to do so in every case. All right, Catherine in Phoenix, Arizona. Catherine, Dennis Prager, hi.

Hi, thanks so much for taking my call.

Thank you.

As soon as I heard what you were saying, I stopped dead in my tracks and just picked up my ears. And I completely identify with everything you just said. I think it's whether you're single—

well, you are, you are 29.

I am 29 and I am single. I'm in a serious committed relationship Um, but you start going through this phase of just asking all these questions, and you feel like you know less now than you've ever known in your life. And it's hard to make decisions because it's kind of what the caller Katie from Scottsdale, you know, she's having major opportunities now. But I feel like it happens whether you're single or married.

Yes.

And I would love to hear more.

So, so wait, I want you— I want to hear a little more from you. Tell me what this alarm clock at age 29 alarmed you about.

You start to ask career questions, you start to ask, where am I headed in my life? What am I doing? Is it the right thing? But you're, you're kind of at a point where if you are single, you're— I don't know if it's the biological clock, but something's ticking and makes you feel like, well, if you're not married, you're either doing something wrong or you need to get on that bandwagon pretty soon, right?

But the women— but again, as I said, so many of the women wonder why they got married.

I know.

So it's like, it's a— it is an alarm clock. Did it take you by surprise?

It's—

I—

a girlfriend and I, we have lots of theories. Um, around 26, she told— she was a year ahead, she was at 27— she says, Catherine, you're going to start going through a point in your life where things just don't make sense. And she was right. I feel like it starts happening around 26, and 29, I just It's— I feel like it is stronger than it ever has been. And I'm just, you know, kind of trusting.

By the way, you want— you want Katie's email address? Maybe you could start— you want Katie's email address, your neighbor's?

Sure.

She's— I can't do that. But no, I'm just kidding. It would be fun though to have like the 29-year-old women's club where you can all sit and say how confusing life is.

It is. I— and it's like, you know, I pray for answers and I just kind of take it day by day.

All right, well, we'll have a lot of people. Oh, I mean, we're just overloaded already. With, with— thank you, thank you, Catherine, I appreciate it. I, I think I'm on to something here. And have you ever heard it be beyond me saying this? And I'm not, I'm not just sitting here to tell you I'm terrific. I just, I, I've not seen it, uh, mentioned. And why in our society is it, is it, you know, does it, is it happening in Uzbekistan and in Paraguay? And I don't know. All right, well, we'll take more of your calls. This is the Male-Female Hour on the Dennis Prager Show.

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This is the Male-Female Hour on the Dennis Prager Show, and I'm Dennis Prager. And I try to be as transparent as possible, and it has its risks, but the benefits so far outweigh the, the risks. And therefore, when people say to me, you know, Dennis, I feel like I know you, you do, you do know me. This is, this is me. And the transparency that I'm about to offer you is what went into my making this hour on this subject. It is something I have thought about for 25 years. And but I gambled, in effect, in making this a subject for the Male-Female Hour because what if my theory was cockamamie? I never read about it. Nobody else told this to me. And so we really, we debated, Alan and I, over this. He wanted it sooner than I. I finally felt like, let's take the risk. And yet I look at these calls and I think, I do think I'm on to something here. And if I am, it's a very important thing to know because the better people know themselves and the better the sexes know each other, the more chance there is for good relations between the sex and a happier life. And it's a very simple theory. I hope it's not simplistic, but it is simple. Something happens to women, and many women in our society, around age 29. Rethinking everything. A, is it true? B, if it is true, Why is it so? So let's first see, is it true? And get some more calls. Here we go to Houston, Texas. And is your name Hazen?

Yes, sir, it is.

Hi, Hazen. Dennis Prager, thanks for calling.

Yeah, good afternoon, Mr. Prager. I think, uh, to answer your two questions right there, I think yes, you're on to something. And I can only ponder a guess, but I think between the—

well, tell us why you think I'm on to something. Tell us your, your own experience with this.

Well, I celebrated my 50th anniversary, uh, last weekend with my wife. Got 2 lovely boys, and, uh, she needs time and space.

And how old is she?

She's 30.

There you go.

Okay.

And did it seem to come out of nowhere?

Out of nowhere. It just absolutely blindsided me. She's needed time and space, and, and, uh, I'm to the point where, as I told your screener, you know, I— what are you doing? I've given you everything you've ever wanted. Your stay-at-home mom, beautiful house, healthy boys. I love you. Everything I have is in your hands. Run with it. And she's all of a sudden now not happy. And I think she's not happy because what she's realizing— this is where my pop psychology comes in— she's ventured— she doesn't know how to love. She doesn't know if it's primal and like 1950s-ish, or if it's by being a strong, independent, career-minded woman. She doesn't— she's— I think she's so— she's got to be torn up. There's a The biological— your earlier caller said about the biological.

Yeah, but she is— she has already met her biological clock. She has two kids. So there's no clock ticking.

No, your previous caller addressed that. And what I wanted to say is this clock has been met, and, uh, and that, that part of the equation in my, in my world is out. So, you know, so now she's thinking, okay, well, now I have everything I ever wanted, and now, well, what is it that I really want? You, you intimated that earlier.

That's exactly right. Hazen, I just want you to know this is of no help to you, but my heart goes out to you. Please know that. I, I, I, I'm not casting any villains here. And, but by the way, there are, there are times I do. I, I don't hesitate from making moral judgments, but I just want to say here that my heart goes out to a guy if what he describes is accurate. I mean, he is blindsided. You know, what, what did I do wrong? He must wake up, pinch himself, and, and ask, well, isn't this like the dream of women? And folks, I'm not saying this as a condemnation or anything. I'm saying this is so we need to understand if the phenomenon is true. You need to know that. And, and if it is true, we need to figure out why. Because of a lot of gratuitous pain that, that occurs between humans. Mike in Philadelphia, you're on the Dennis Prager Show.

Dennis, thank you so much for taking my call. You are definitely on to something here. I was married for 7 years and my wife— well, ex-wife— is 29 and literally got blindsided just like your other callers.

You're 33 now?

Yes.

You have kids?

No.

And you were married 7 years, so you married— she was 22 when she married?

Yes.

Are you— that— were you the same age?

No.

What were you?

Uh, I was, you know, I'm fine, 4 years older.

All right. So you're— oh, I see. So this just happened?

Yes, uh, just about a year ago.

And you were blind— you were— you felt blindsided as well?

Absolutely. Just one day I found out that there was an infidelity.

That there was a what? There was a what?

Infidelity.

Infidelity. Yeah, you're breaking up a little. Okay, an infidelity. And what did she say to you? What were her words?

She doesn't know what she wants.

Boy, I tell you.

And this was after years of marriage, you know, home You know, everything. We were kind of moving towards a shared goal, and then all of a sudden I was kind of left on my own.

And you loved her?

Absolutely, without a doubt.

Wow. All right, Mike, I thank you so much. And, uh, you know, you'll certainly meet somebody and have a happy life. I'm convinced of that. It's really, uh, I mean, folks, if you throw out something like this, look, if you have a big enough audience, I, I'm not foolish. I understand that if you have a large enough audience, a selection of humanity, then, then, you know, perhaps I could have said that, uh, men at 29, this happens. But I don't think I would have filled up the lines like this with stories like this. My husband changed at 29. I don't think that happens in 0.01% of the cases. Alright, now we'll have enough time for me to offer what I think we might want to learn from this, but it's so important to hear from as many of you as possible. We go to Anaheim and Teresa. Hello, Teresa. Dennis Prager.

Hi, Dennis. How you doing?

I'm well, thank you.

Good. Well, here is my— here is an opinion, 60-plus point of view, kind of an overview of the various milestones in a woman's life. I think men seem to only have one milestone, and that would be midlife, whenever that happens for them, right? And they, they try to feel younger, so they try to get thinner, and they try to get a younger woman. But a woman realizes about 29 she's really come of age when she says, wow, you know, okay, life is passing by really quickly. Either I need to have a child if I'm childless, or I need to go back to school, or I need to get a better job. And I think the reason behind this is is that a woman always seems to want to get better. Men seem to feel like they've arrived. You know, they have their job, so they do their job and they come home and that's it. I'll be 63 in a few days, and right now, I mean, I want to do it all. I want to, you know, try different fun jobs after I retire. I want to enjoy the grandkids, I want to travel. I think women are more well-rounded. I think that kind of adds to the problem of what men seem to think is confusing in a way, because you don't know what's happening in our minds. And I think women are just more well-rounded than men.

So this, what happens at 29 is a virtue?

Well, I think it's an awakening, and I think women are getting married too soon. They should they should stay single.

Well, that, by the way, is one of the questions I want to discuss here. If there is a lesson here, is that one of the conclusions to be drawn? Back in a moment.

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I think if we had 100 lines to the studio, 100 lines would be lit up, and with apparently with examples of what I am talking about. 1-800-PRAGER-776 is the number. If you can get in, and it's worth trying, people drop off or whatever happens, but in any event, the subject on this male-female Male Hour. Every week at this time, I devote an hour to male-female issues. It is a theory of mine that I, I don't claim is unique to me, but I haven't heard it elsewhere. And that is that something happens around age 29 to a great many women in our society, and it, it's almost like an alarm clock goes off and brand new questions about their whole life arise. And as you've heard men calling up and saying out of nowhere in a seemingly happy, loving marriage, their wife wants a divorce out of nowhere. No, no, he has had no affair. And, uh, you know, no, no, I mean, everything seemed to be great. It seems to come out of nowhere, and it seems to come out of nowhere to the woman too. It's not, it's not, not just to the man. And if this is true, uh, then there we have to figure out why. And once we figure out why, let's figure out what we can do about that. And let's go to Deborah in San Antonio, Texas. Hi, Deborah. Dennis Prager.

Hi, Dennis. Hi. First of all, I want to say that your idea is not cockamamie. I would call you many things, but never cockamamie.

Well, I wouldn't call me cockamamie either. The question was whether the idea was, not me.

Oh, no. Okay.

Right. Go ahead. I know.

I won't make that connection then.

Okay.

I was just going to tell you that when I was about 30, I had— exactly what you're describing happened to me, and I've seen it happen to my girlfriends. I'm 50 now, but I remember this very vividly. And what happens, in my opinion, is that women feel time passing so much more quickly than men do. And my theory is that our culture places so much value on youth and beauty, and when a woman starts getting close to 30, we begin to feel that we only have a few good years left and suddenly there's a panic to wonder, is there something better with these few good years? It's kind of like listening to the radio and you like the song that's on, but what if there's something better? So you switch stations. And that's what happened with me. I walked away from a very content, perfectly good life because I panicked because I thought time is slipping away, time is running out, and what if there was something better for me? What if I could have, you know, done better? What if there could have been more for me?

Or, or a better man?

I'm sorry?

Or a better man?

Well, maybe that. I, I was married to a wonderful man.

Well, did— wait, wait, did you stay married?

No, I, I, I got a divorce.

All right, so then, then what I, what I said was accurate, that part of the 'what if there was something better' was 'what if there's a better man.' I— you, you yourself said, 'I'll switch stations.' Sure.

I think that was part of it, is could there be a better marriage?

Okay, fine.

All right.

And in retrospect, uh, did you— by the way, did you remarry?

I did.

Okay. Uh, well, so it's hard to ask because it would seem to— it would— it doesn't reflect on your current marriage, but, uh, I'm still— still ask, and please know that it doesn't reflect. You may have the most wonderful marriage in the world, but In retrospect, do you think it was worthy of divorcing over?

No, I wish I had been more mature. I'm so happy with my marriage now.

Okay, well, you are an honest woman because, you see, it would be tempting for you to say, well, since I'm so happily married now, I realize it was the right decision. But you answered me very honestly, and I salute you for that. You're a very deep person, and I appreciate that call. But this is exactly why I raised this, and it was a gamble, as I said, because what What if I was just wrong and people would think the guy has this bizarre theory, he met two women in his life, or heard about two cases, and now he's generalizing? You know my theory anyway, generalizations are the mother of wisdom, but of course a wrong generalization is the mother of foolishness. So it better darn well be a good generalization, or you don't have a very clear view of the world. I think this is clear, so I will take more calls. But I think now we have to ask, and I will have to start thinking through with you, if this is true, and apparently it is, what can be done to forestall tragedy? And one answer I'll tell you right now was just given by Deborah. It's called maturity. And that is not something we aim for much in this society. It's a big problem. Male-Female Hour, Dennis Prager Show. Well, to my satisfaction— and I'm Dennis Prager and this is the Male-Female Hour— to my intellectual satisfaction, I think we've established that my theory has a basis in reality. That in and of itself is worth talking about, by the way, how you come to understand life based on your own experiences, whether your experiences are atypical or not. I mean, there's a lot, lot in that whole issue. Of what you can, you learn from your own observations. Because remember, college makes you stupider. I mean that literally. I don't mean it as it's an attack, but I don't mean it to be an attack. I mean it literally. It makes you stupider in part because it says what you observe means nothing. The only thing you can ever learn from are studies. And so we become stupider when we look at life. Anyway, that's, that's a side issue, but a very important side issue. Hence I mentioned it. My theory is that for many women in our society, I'm not speaking about other societies or historically, around the age of 29, for many women, some alarm clock goes off out of nowhere seemingly and asks the ultimate questions of life. What am I? Who am I? What am I doing here? Whatever the here is. Why am I single? Why am I married? Why do I have kids? Why don't I have this job? Why aren't I traveling? Why aren't I staying home? Why aren't I this? Who am I? What will be? The best, like some of you were so eloquent, by the way, it's my point, you remember that? When people are passionate, they become eloquent. And some of you have truly been. And you feel, women do in our society at any rate, with the premium on youth and beauty, oh my, how many years, that was really revelatory for many people I think. How many years do I have left at this worth? And have I done the very best I can do with this? It's almost like I have a treasure. The treasure is now starting to flow through my hands. Before it dissipates, what can I do? What do I even want to do? Is what many women ask now. And this last woman, I mean, just honestly saying, as great as her current marriage is, There was no good reason for her to divorce at 30, but she did. Dallas, Texas, and, uh, Julieta. Julieta, Dennis Prager, thank you for calling. How old are you?

I am 21, sir.

Oh, so you have 8 years to look forward to.

Sounds like it. Um, I listen to you all the time, and I don't think I've ever been as interested in a topic as this one. I'm I told your screener I'm 21 and I know that I'm young and all this stuff, but I think that it doesn't necessarily deal with being 29. I think the factor that you have to look at is if you have a goal in mind and if you've achieved it. I am currently in law school. I finished college in 2 and a half years. I'm kind of just on the fast track. And I think I had something like this. I don't think to the same extent because I'm single and I still live with my parents, trying to save money, but I think I came to the point where I was just thinking, you know, I've done everything. Like, what am I going to do when I graduate? I'm just going to have a job, and then what? And then, you know—

So you think you have speeded up your life is what you're saying, and you're asking these questions already?

Not necessarily speeded up my life. I'm happy with— where I am, I think it's just the idea of having some goal in mind, and I've already achieved it. So what do you think happens for 29-year-olds later? Because I mean, not everybody goes through it the same pace.

Right. Well, I somehow wish— it's very rare that I ever want to visit the future. I have no desire to see the future. But if I could have a call with you in 8 years, I would love that. I mean, in other words, now, if I could, if I could somehow visit the future I'd like to know if all of your goal setting and obviously terrific attainments at your age— you sound like a remarkable young woman— uh, will in some way militate against your going through this experience at 29. I just don't know. I'm agnostic on the issue. I'm not predicting it will, Julieta. I can say this to women though: it is worth asking these big questions before 29. You see, because no wisdom is given over in college, none, zero, in fact it's anti-wisdom, I think that that's a factor. This is about 7, 8 years after college for many women. They have had time to undo the foolishness that college has instilled in them, like profession is everything, or indeed to assimilate it, whatever it might be. I don't think that that's the only factor by any means, but I think it is a factor. We are not— kids are not made wise today. They're made educated, but they're not made wise. Religion, which was a major factor in wisdom teaching— kids would learn Proverbs, for example— most kids today never heard of the book of Proverbs. But so today there are no aphorisms even in their lives. They don't know what the word aphorism means, for that matter. And so they don't get wisdom, and so wisdom is achieved only through experience. Now, experience is a great teacher, but if, if only experience teaches and we learn nothing from our elders or from, from traditions that precede our elders, then we will all be fools until we experience life. And it shouldn't have to be that way. The whole point is to learn about life as best as possible without having to experience it. I've—

I—

when I was a kid, I used to say If 100 people in front of me are walking in a certain direction and they all fall off a cliff, I don't feel it necessary to fall off that cliff. I take their word for it. I will fall off the cliff too. That's not to say that life hasn't taught me an immense amount. It certainly has. But I did believe that there was wisdom that preceded me. And these are questions I would advise every young woman listening to ask herself. Who am I? What do I really want in life? What is really important? Ask those questions now. The sooner you ask them, the less that alarm clock will be loud when life will force you to ask those questions. What sort of man do I really want? What sort of marriage? Do I believe that marriage is at least as important as career? What about children? In fact, it's funny because we were debating the other subject I was thinking of doing for this hour was how children can adversely affect the the relationship between husband and wife. I'm going to talk about that obviously another week, uh, but that is something to think about in advance. The more that life hits you with surprises, the less able we are to deal with them. The more we can think through in advance, the better we will be able to deal with life. So for young women, knowing that 29 may all of a sudden pose all these questions, ask them now at 24. And help others— ask others to help you answer them. There are people over 30 who have wisdom. Back in a moment. I'm Dennis Prager.

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Oh no, you say goodbye and I say hello.

Hi everybody, I say hello to you. I'm Dennis Prager. This is the Male-Female Hour. What an hour, by the way. Which reminds me, I try to make every hour in some way life-affecting. I do, okay? I don't know if it sounds arrogant. I'll have to live with that charge. And that's why I bring to your attention PragerTopia, where you can have my shows permanently Download it commercial-free, highest quality. It's PragerTopia at any of my websites: prageradio.com, dennisprager.com, or even pragertopia.com for that matter. $7 a month, that's the whole price. And by the way, this show, The Male-Female Hour, has about 18 great shows on disc available. 800-225-8584. 800 The Male-Female Hour, 800-225-8584, or also at those websites. Okay, uh, what happens to women at 29? Jessica, Minneapolis. Dennis Prager, hi.

Hi Dennis, I'm just shaking. I can't believe I'm not alone in this. Um, I'm 29 and I'm— I've been married 9 years and I have 3 kids and I'm secure in my marriage. My husband went through a— I don't know if you call it a quarter-life crisis at 26. And I was forced to deal with that whole year, why am I in this marriage, is it worth it, and we worked through that and I feel very secure and solid in my marriage. But I feel like since I've turned 29, I've had a crisis in every other one of my relationships. I've, I've stopped talking to my mom, um, who's been emotionally abusive my whole life. I've evaluated every single friendship I have.

I'm—

I feel like I'm going through a crisis of faith. What is real? What does God want from me? Um, who do I believe and who, who is right? And what am I supposed to be doing? What am I doing here? What is my purpose? I— it's nice to know that I'm not alone, and I'm so glad you're doing this hour.

Oh, thank you for telling me. You are not alone, Jessica. It seems to me that women who go through that age and don't have this issue, they're more, they're more in the minority than you are. Oh, I will have a lot to say about this in ensuing weeks, by the way. But I did want to get to— who was this? John, was that right? The one— yes, John in Los Angeles. Dennis Prager, hi.

Hi Dennis, how are you?

Okay, thank you.

So I completely agree with you. I heard it, uh, when you— I think one time you had mentioned it previously, and I just happened to hear that snippet, and, uh, I thought I was gonna cry because, uh, I went through it 3 years ago when my wife just turned 29, and we had been planning our wedding and our kids and started building our dream house. And we spent 5 years together, and it was the weekend after Thanksgiving, and we just had family over, and she cooked, and everything was so happy. And I came home from work, and she said that she thinks we're moving in different directions.

That's right. All right, what does it all mean? That's why I invite you to future editions of the Male-Female Hour. I'm Dennis Prager.

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