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Evan Sanchez argues that parents sending job listings to unemployed adult children backfires. It shames them, gets ignored, and pushes them away. Instead, focus on making them feel seen and heard.
Evan Sanchez argues that parents sending job listings to unemployed adult children backfires. It shames them, gets ignored, and pushes them away. Instead, focus on making them feel seen and heard.
Just stop it. Stop sending your kid job listings. Why? Because imagine how you would feel if somebody sent you job listings every day. Would you feel seen and heard? I don't think so. You would feel shame. You'd feel judgment. You'd resist and you'd shut down. That's exactly what they're doing. It's the opposite of help. You're doing the opposite of helping them, and it's got to stop. You need to make them feel seen and heard. You need to connect with them. Plus, never mind the fact that job listings have a less than 1% response rate. They might as well play the lottery. So please stop sending your kids job listings. And if you need more tips on how to help your adult child move on with their lives, follow me for more.
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